IBIGANIRO KU IGITUBA

8 Jul 08, 08:28
Gaternelson: Muraho Nshuti bene Data, nejejwe na message ya Emmanuel, iriya nyandiko nacishijeho, impamvu nanditse ko ukoresha intoki ni iyi: igihe cya mbere cyo gushakisha kariya kadomu ka G ( G-SPOT ) nibwo ukor
8 Jul 08, 08:26
emmanuel: bakunzi ba Blog Igituba mukomere cyane kandi nabonye n’Amafoto y’Ibituba bisharamye atanjiye kuboneka
8 Jul 08, 08:21
emmanuel: ubwo umuhanga wa Posisiyo Zo Guswera yatubwira position nziza wakoresha kugirango wibande kuli point G
8 Jul 08, 08:11
emmanuel: nibyashoboka ko imboro yabikora cg se niyajyera kuli point G,kuko harijihe umugore byamudyohera cyane bigatuma azinukwa Imboro
8 Jul 08, 08:03
emmanuel: maze iminsi naravuye hewani ariko ubu ndihewani.hari inkuru ya gaternelson nasomye yuburyo umugore yakora kugirango asohore bimwe bikomeye nkibyabagabo ariko ikibazo mfite nabonye bikorwa nintoki
8 Jul 08, 02:11
Mami: Ubwo se imiti ngo ituma umuntu akuna bigakura yaboneka? Mungire inama aho umuntu yayikura. Ndayikeneye
8 Jul 08, 02:09
Mami: Nifuzaga kumenya niba umuco wo Gukuna waba ugikorwa cyane cyane mu mujyi.
8 Jul 08, 02:09
Mami: Muraho? Ndi mushya kuri blog.
8 Jul 08, 00:13
Cash: bakristu nimuzamure imboro zanyu maze dushime IMANA.barumirwa maze bose bashyira ibiganza ku munwa abasubiza arakaye ati ndababwira kumanika imboro zanyu mukazishyira ku bituba?bati noneho si padiri!!
8 Jul 08, 00:11
Cash: Bjr! sha nari mbakumbuye pe!Urwenya : umuzungu w’umupadiri yaje mu Rda asba abakristu kumwigisha ikinyarda bamushuka ko ikiganza ni umboro naho iminwa ni igituba:maze mu misa ati:
7 Jul 08, 09:44
Gaternelson: Merci à Bagambiki ku nkuru yacishijeho nanditse, ubutaha abagore n’inshuti zabo nibarangiza pratique tuzareba n’ibindi byiza
7 Jul 08, 09:13
Gaternelson: imishino ireshya na cm 12 ni ukuvuga uburebure bw’urutoki rwa musumbazose, iyo mishino yitwa ” IMIJABURAMABYI”
7 Jul 08, 09:10
Gaternelson: amakuru yanyu, Doule, ndagerageza kuguha igisubizo, ubundi umukobwa wakunnye cyane akarusha abandi ntiwamenya neza uburebure nyakuri bw’imishino ye ariko bavuga ko uwarushije abandi yaragerageje agira
7 Jul 08, 07:55
DOGE: umukobwa ufite imishino miremire ishobora kuresha na cm zingahe?
7 Jul 08, 05:39
Bangambiki: Komera Sonia Ibintu bikunnye birahari birategurwa
7 Jul 08, 04:54
sonia: ibituba bikunye mwarabibuze
7 Jul 08, 03:04
Bangambiki: DOGE UMUGORE ashobora gusohora ntubone amazi ku buriri, igituba ni kirekire! bikibera iyo imbere. Ibyo amazi hanze biterwa no Kunyaza cyangwa gutoha cyane kw’imibonano
7 Jul 08, 03:02
BANGAMBIKI: DOULE komera cyane ikibazo cya Doule CYASUBIJWE na REAL ARIKO ICYA doge cyo kumenya niba umugore yarangije ndagerageza kugisubiza umbabarire byanciyeho, turabubaha kandi turabakunda reba igisubizo
7 Jul 08, 02:58
Bangambiki: Gaternelson Inkuru yawe on the airwaves soon
7 Jul 08, 02:58
Bangambiki: Uwera violet baza turahari
7 Jul 08, 02:57
Bangambiki: NYOKO komera cyane, nta bituba tuzazira, turimo turiga uko tugomba kubirya neza
6 Jul 08, 15:08
Nyoko: ndagaswera nyoko muzazira ibyo bituba
6 Jul 08, 15:07
Nyoko: ibyo bituba muzabizira!
6 Jul 08, 11:38
uwera violet: ndashaka gusoma
6 Jul 08, 11:38
uwera violet: ndagisha inama
6 Jul 08, 10:39
Gaternelson: Bangambiki Online, nohereje ya nkuru ishyushye, yaratinze ariko ni nyuma y’ubushakashatsi burambuye nakoze mu bitabo bitandukanye ndetse no kuri net, urakoze kuyicishaho tukayisoma, sauf ko wemerewe gukosora
5 Jul 08, 09:43
DOULE: Bangambiki kuki utakidusubiza neza ibibazo byose umuntu aba yabajijye? EX: ikibazo cya DOGE hamwe ni DOULE
4 Jul 08, 08:56
bangambiki: Murakoze Latoute mukomeze kurebera blog
4 Jul 08, 08:43
La toute: Ikindi Banga, uriya musomyi wakwambitse Doctorat sicyo ngirango yari agamije; yashakaga kuvuga ko ibirenze iby’ibanze wabitugejejeho! Urakoze!
4 Jul 08, 08:41
La toute: Murambabarira, ndabona iyi machine yakoze multiplication! ibihe byiza!
4 Jul 08, 08:29
La toute: naho si ukuvuga ko ugikunda; kuko hari abagikunda ntibature bakagifata buturi; ku nyigisho uba wabahaye!
4 Jul 08, 08:27
La toute: naho si ukuvuga ko ugikunda; kuko hari abagikunda ntibature bakagifata buturi; ku nyigisho uba wabahaye!
4 Jul 08, 08:26
La toute: naho si ukuvuga ko ugikunda; kuko hari abagikunda ntibature bakagifata buturi; ku nyigisho uba wabahaye!
4 Jul 08, 08:25
La toute: ni oeuvre yawe kandi ndumva binejeje! nkuko habaga avenue Paul VI n’ibindi!
4 Jul 08, 08:17
Bangambiki: Ariko koko pe LATOUTE muranze mugize Dr Bangambiki w’Igituba ubu se ninjye ugikunda kurusha abandi ra.Oya ndi umurwayi bihagije ku buryo nkiganiriza abandi nakuye isoni ku maso
4 Jul 08, 08:12
La toute: Banga! Zitukwamo nkuru!uraho Dr Bangambiki!
4 Jul 08, 08:11
La toute: barongera Makobwa ahamagara Kibwa ati Kibga we: fata ukomeze bza bindi bzongeye! ababyeyi bakubitwa n’inkuba! umugabo agwa agacuho;mu kandi kanya Makobwa ati mama ko wanihaga utaka Papa yagukubitaga!
4 Jul 08, 08:08
La toute: Abana Kibwa na Makobwa baryamanaga n’ababyeyi, nijoro rurambikana Kibwa wararaga imbere baramubyiga arahanuka, Makobwa aryamye inyuma arisinziriza, baterura Kibwa bamusubiza mu kiryamo, amaze kugona
4 Jul 08, 08:07
La toute: Abana Kibwa na Makobwa baryamanaga n’ababyeyi, nijoro rurambikana Kibwa wararaga imbere baramubyiga arahanuka, Makobwa aryamye inyuma arisinziriza, baterura Kibwa bamusubiza mu kiryamo, amaze kugona
4 Jul 08, 08:07
bangambiki: FRANCE,LATOUTE,ndababonanamwe ni mukomerezaho guseka ni umuti.
4 Jul 08, 08:02
La toute: Komera nawe fRANCE§
4 Jul 08, 07:59
fRANCE: ET SI LE MOT NM’EXISTE PAS L’ACADEMIE FRANCAISE N’A QU’A SE PENDRE
4 Jul 08, 07:59
fRANCE: JE T’AIME C’EST NORMAL JE TE CHERIE C’EST VULGAIRE JE T’ADORE C’EST NATUREL ALORS MOI JE T’AMOURE
4 Jul 08, 07:58
fRANCE: komereza aho
4 Jul 08, 07:58
fRANCE: Bangambiki we gusa Imana izakwihere umugisha kuko watumye nongera guseka kandi nari narabyiobagiwe
4 Jul 08, 07:57
fRANCE: Umva guswera ni byiza iyo bitamenywa nabose umwana yari aryamanye niwabo ashidukira hejuru asanga bari mu mibonano mpuzabitsina avuza induru agira ati Papa,Papa va kuri Mama va kuri Mama .
4 Jul 08, 07:41
La toute: Nanjye ndabaramukije! Muhorane urukundo !
4 Jul 08, 07:41
La toute: Nanjye ndabaramukije! Muhorane urukundo !
4 Jul 08, 06:24
bangambiki: GATERNELSON komera wana email ni hbangfr@yahoo.com ohereza izo nkuru rero

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The New Scientist On Labia Minora Stretching (Gukuna) in Rwanda

The New Scientist On Labia Minora Stretching (Gukuna) in Rwanda

The New Scientist has a short but intriguing note about Rwandan female genital modification, in particular elongation of the labia minora.
From around puberty onwards,rwandan girls start stretching the labia minora using plant extracts with antiseptic and anti-inflamatory properties, with the aim of achieving a length of about 5 cm. Social Scientists Marian Koster and Liza Price of Wageningen University in the Netherlands interviewed 11 women and 2 men in Rwanda about the practice, called “gukuna imishino”.” The Rwandan women and men we interviewed were clear in their opinion that all Rwandan women are able to ejaculate, the ejaculation being different from the mere squirting of urine,” Koster says. “Elongated labia are seen as crucial in this respect.” The WHO considers this practice as a form of genital mutilation, but Koster and Price argue that it should be reclassified as genital modification.”We believe that there are cultural practices that are not harmful to women’s integrity and rights”,says Koster

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IGITUBA CYASENYE IKANISA

IGITUBA CYASENYE IKANISA

Kera habayeho itorero ryayoborwaga n’umupasitoro wireberaga abatanga amaturo menshi kuruta abuzura umwuka wera. Umunsi umwe agirirwa umugisha wo kwakira mu itorero rye umugabo w’umukungu abantu bubahaga muri ako karere kubera imari nyinshi n’ubugwaneza yabigiragamo. Bukeye wa mupasitoro wikundiraga cash kuruta Gitare yigira inama yo gushyira mu nama y’abasaza uwo mukungu ngo arebe ko ikibo cy’amaturo cyakwakira agatubutse. Ni ko byagenze, itorero ryarakuze riragwira kubera habonetse amafaranga yo gukora “umurimo w’Imana”. Nyamara ariko uko gutumba ku itorero ntaho kwari guhuriye n’imihindukire mu mitima y'”abera.”Uwo mucuruzi w’umukungu byavugwaga ko yikundiraga n’igitsina kuko abagore b’abakozi be bajyaga “bamuzimanira” ngo abagabo babo barambe ku kazi. Inkuru igera k’umushumba ariko arabyirengagiza kuko atashakaga kwikura amata mu kanwa. Bidatinze asiga amavuta uwo mukire ngo na we abe umushumba amufashe umurimo w’Imana. Intama zirabireba zirabigaya ariko ziba “intama” nyine kuko ugutegeka agukubita aryamye. Nyamara ikirunga cyarimo kiyubaka kandi umunsi uri izina cyagombaga kuzaruka. Ntihaciye kabiri amatiku y’ubucuruzi yikubita mu itorero, umwe mu bacuruzi wari uzi ingeso za wa mukire yigira inama zo kuzikoresha ngo amusenye kuko bari basanzwe bazirana. Uwo mucuruzi wundi yagiraga ikigore gisa n’aho bwakereye, nubwo cyaguhera ubusa utakegera. Nuko bakwiza igihuha, bapapira n’ibimenyetso ngo basebye wa mupasitoro mushya. Bamwangiraga ko abaye umuyobozi wabo kandi bazirana, bizeza umushumba wikundira cash ko niyirukana wa mukire ntacyo azaba bazamufasha. Umushumba mukuru arabyemera atumiza inama umugore w’urwanya wa mukire aza gutanga ubuhamya bw’uko yenzwe nawa mupasitoro mushya. “Yarampamagaye antwara mu modoka ye, dusohokera ahantu ntazi tugezeyo ansaba igituba, mbura uko mwangira ndamuha.” Umugore w’urwanya pasitoro ni ko yavuze. Abantu bahise bipfuka mu maso barebye ukuntu uwo mushizi w’isoni avuga uko byagenze. Bibajije n’ukununtu umuntu yajya gusaba igituba umugore w’umuntu bazirana cyane. Umushumba mukuru yahise aca wa mupasitoro w’umukire.

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IKIVUGO CYA SIDA

IKIVUGO CYA SIDA

par bangambiki

Umuhunda wanjye ni rutikura mu gihumbi
Umuhungu umpangaye ndamuhangayika
Inkumi inkundiye nyigirizaho nkana
Rutishereka ababisha ingamba zimaze kurema
Nipfusha magwandi bakagira ngo naguye
Nabadukana ibakwe nkabagandagura
Umushibuka wanjye nawuteze ku gashinze
Ntawe nshotora nica nka Nyabarongo
Umwambi wanjye ni ingobe
Nta wunyigobotora namugabanye
Inkuru yabaye cyoma
Ko mbarizwa ku cyomanzi
Ko nugamye izuba mu maguru
Ndabareka kwinjira ni ubuntu gusohoka ni ubusimba
Nta wunsimbukana atampaye
Nta mpongano y’icyaha
Amaraso ni yo amara icyaka.

Icyana ncyanika ku muhanda
Ihogoza ndivuza ubuhiri
Nkasinda amaraso y’isugi
Umwari mwangizanya ikimero
Nkamukenyeza rushorera
Abamubonye bakazunguza umutwe

Umusore ndamusogota
Nkamusigira ibisiga
Ibisigazwa imbwa zigaheka
Umugabo mufata ingoto nkamuta k’uwa Kajwiga

Umugore mugoreka ibirenge
Nkamuhekesha amaboko
Abana be nkabatereka umutwe mu biganza
Ubuganza narabwangabaje
Igihugu nacyujuje imfubyi
Abapfakazi banjye ntibabarika
Ingongo zirampiga
Ariko nihishe mu mpinga

Amaso y’inyana nya
teza akanyarirajisho
Amenyo y’urwererane nyavutsa inseko
Umutima utuje nkawushenguza agahinda
Umutako mwiza nkawuta mu cyondo
Uwicyeza nkamugira icyondi.
Nkamuzindukana kare cyane
Nkamutura Nyamuzinda
Umwami w’i Kuzimu.
Iyandemye amaboko yarariraye
Irankomeza ingira umuringa
Yangize intare batinya
Umugaba w’intambara

INKURU BISA

Indwara z’Ibitsina

Indwara ya Sida

Agakingirizo

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IGITUBA MU NDIMI ZINYURANYE

IGITUBA MU NDIMI ZINYURANYE

igituba-ikinyarwanda
igituba-ikirundi
kuma-swahili
vagina-english
vagina-portugues
vagin-francais
xitombo-xangana,ronga,tsonga(southern Africa)

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KUNYAZA,IBANGA RYO GUSOHORA KW’ABAGORE

KUNYAZA,IBANGA RYO GUSOHORA KW’ABAGORE

Soma iyi nkuru mu cyongereza hano

Nsekuye Bizimana arasobanura uburyo bwa karande bwo guhuza igitsina. Abashakashatsi mu by’igitsina bavuga ko 70% by’abagore badashobora gusohora binyuze mu nzira zo gucumitwa mu igituba gusa. Kugira ngo afashe abagore gusohora, Nsekuye Bizimana, arasobanura uburyo bwa karande nyafurika bwo guswera bwitwa “kunyaza”. Mu gitabo cye yise Le Secret de l’Amour A l’Africaine, arasobanura uburyo bwo guhuza igitsina bwa karande bukoreshwa muri Afurika yo hagati n’iy’i burasirazuba.

Nsekuye Bizimana yiyumvisha ko Afurika irimo igisubizo cyo gusohora kw’abagore. Uburyo akundamo ihuzabitsina nyafurika byatumye acukumbura uburyo guhuza igitsina bikorwamo mu gihugu cye cy’u Rwanda, i Burundi, uburasirazuba bwa Congo, uburengerazuba bwa Uganda na Tanzania. Umuco wo kunyaza, watugezeho biturutse ku bury abasekuruza bacu bagiye bawuhererekanya mu buryo bwo kubibwirana(kuko nta bitabo byariho ngo byandikwe),ni uburyo bwo guswera bukora umurimo wabwo neza ku buryo umugore ashobora kurangiza inshuro nyinshi mu mubonano umwe kandi akananyara. Nsekuye Bizimana asobanura neza kunyaza akoresheje ibishushanyo n’amafoto mu gituba cye nako igitabo cye Le Secret de l’Amour a l’Africaine, yandikiye mu Budage aho abarizwa ubu, kandi kizaboneka vuba muri Amerika. Nsekuye Bizimana,unahagarariye ikigo gikora ubushakashatsi ku kunyaza, aratekereza ko igitabo cye kizigisha byinshi kunyaza ku isi yose. Abagabo ntibazongera kugira urwitwazo rwo kudashimisha abakunzi babo b’abagore, ubushakashatsi bugaragaza ko 70%yabo batajya basohora iyo bacumiswe mu gituba gusa.

Afrik.com:1.Dusobanurire kunyaza icyo ari cyo
Nsekuye Bizimana: Kunyaza ni uburyo gukinisha cyane igituba cy’umugore. Umugabo akubitisha isonga y’imboro ye mu bice by’imbere mu gituba, ashobora kubikora mu buryo buhagaritse(akurikije umusate w’igituba) cyangwa mu buryo butambitse. Umugabo agomba kwibanda kuri rugongo, akajya ayikubitaho,ayikubaho isonga y’imboro yerekeza iburyo n’ibumoso. Kubikora iyo bibabaza umugore, umugore agomba kubanza gukoresha amavuta yoroshya mu gituba cyangwa bakabanza gukinishanya kugeza igituba gitose mu buryo bwa kamere kitegura imboro. Umugabo aramutse anyaje neza umugore agomba gushobora kurangiza mu minota nk’itanu.

Afrik.com:Iminota itanu itanu uzunguza imboro kuri rugongo, ubwo se umugabo ntaruha ukuboko…

Nsekuye Bizimana: Abaswerana bagomba gufatanya. Umugore ashobora kugarama cyane akifungura ku buryo umugabo agera ku bice biryoherwa by’umugore bitamugoye. Ibyo ari byo byose biragiye
kurigata mu gituba kurusha kunyaza,ururimi n’imisaya nabyo biruha vuba.

Afrik.com:Unavuga ko Kunyaza bishobora gushimisha umugore wakebwe rugongo

Nsekuye Bizimana: Mu gukebwa kwinsi kw’abagore, bakeba gusa agace gato ka rugongo, igice cy’imbere ntigikorwaho, n’agaheha ko kunyariramo ntigakorwaho, kandi aho hose hararyoherwa cyane. Ubwo rero abo bagore bashobora kunyazwa. Dushobora gutekereza ko abagore bakebwe badashobora kurangiza. Nyamara naganiriye n’abo bagore bambwira ko banyajwe bigakunda.

Afrik.com: kunyaza ngo bishobora gukorwa n’iyo umugabo yaba agira ibibazo byo gushyukwa…

Nsekuye Bizimana: Abagabo bafite ibibazi bito byo gushyukwa, bashobora gukinisha rugongo n’imboro yabo, kandi mu gihe barimo kubigerageza baboneraho no gushyukwa bakaba bashobora gucumita abagore babo. Abagabo benshi bafite ibibazo byo gushyukwa bambwiye kunyaza byabafashije guhaza abagore babo.

Afrik.com: Uvuga ko kunyaza bizakundwa cyane nka gusomana kw’abafaransa(french kiss)

Nsekuye Bizimana:Igihe nari nkiri muto, gusomana kw’abafaransa ntibyari bizwi cyane. Abantu bake bari babizi, ariko ubu abanyafurika benshi barabikora.. Nko mu myaka 100 ishize uburyo bwo gusomana bw’abafaransa bwakorwaga n’abantu bake gusa mu burayi ubwaho. Ibi bivuga ko uburyo bwiza bwo gukora ibintu bushobora gukwira ku isi yose. Mu gihe rero numva ko kunyaza ari uburyo bwiza bwo guhuza igitsina nta mpamvu yatuma ntizera ko buzakundwa n’abantu benshi. Igitabo cyanjye nikimara gusohoka mu rurimi rw’icyongereza umwaka utaha 2009 ndizera ko abantu benshi bazgerageza kunyaza mu gihe abandi bazagenda babwirana inkuru nziza yo kunyaza. Kunyaza ni uburyo bwo guhuza igitsina buzwi kandi bukorwa muri Namibia bwaje bukomotse muri Uganda.

Afrik.com: Uvuga ko amahugurwa yawe yo kunyaza akenshi azamo abanyaburayi. Wasobanura impamvu ibitera?

Nsekuye Bizimana:Ntabwo nzi impamvu abanyafurika batitabira aya mahugurwa yo kunyaza, gusa nshobora gukeka. Icyo ntekereza ni uko nkurikije ibyo nabonye mu Budage, abnyafurika ntibajya bitabira amanama n’amahugurwa ya politiki. Uzabasanga mu makiriziya ahubwo. Ibyo ni byo nabonye..Ariko ndakeka ko bizahinduka kuko abantu benshi barimo kugura igitabo cyanjye cyanditse mu gifaransa

Afrik.com: Hari icyo se abaganga b’igitsina bari bavuga nyuma yaho usohoreye igitabo cyawe ku kunyaza?

Nsekuye Bizimana: Ndacyategereje icyo bazavuga ku kunyaza. Cyane cyane ko nagereranyije inyungu z’uburyo bigisha no kunyaza. Abaganga b’igitsina nta kintu kigaragara bagezeho mu buryo bwo gufasha abagore gusohora, ntekereza ko kunyaza bifasha abagore gusohora kurusha ubundi buryo abaganga b’igitsina bigisha.

Afrik.com: Inzu yandika ibitabo yavuze iki ku gitabo cyawe mbere y’uko ugitangaza?

Nsekuye Bizimana: Byarabashimishije kuko babonaga uburyo bwanjye buzagira akamaro. Inzu yasohoye igitabo cyanjye yasohoye ibitabo byinshi ku gitsina harimo n’ibitabo by’umuganga w’ikirangirire w’umufaransa Gerard Leleu. Mu by’ukuri bazi ibyo bakora.

Afrik.com: Usibye kunyaza, hari ubundi buryo waba uzi bwatuma umugore arangiza bitamugoye?

Nsekuye Bizimana: Mba nkuroga, iyo mbumenya mba narabwanditseho

Afrik.com: Mbese inyandiko zawe zihengamiye ku itezambere ry’umugore?

Nsekuye Bizimana: ntabwo ari mu buryo bw’uburwanashyaka, ni ikibazo nabonye, cy’uko abagore bagomba gushimishwa n’igitsina cyabo. Ndashaka ko abagore basohora igihe barimo guhuza igitsina.

Afrik.com:Urumva ushaka gukora ubushakashatsi bunonosoye ku kunyaza muri Institute for Sexology and Sexual Medicine mu Budage kugira ngo ugaragaze akamaro k’ubu buryo. Amafaranga y’uyu mushinga uzayakura he?

Nsekuye Bizimana:Ubushakashatsi bwitaweho muri iki gihe mu Budage ni indwara z’ibitsina n’ingaruka zo mutwe ziterwa no gufata abana ku ngufu no Gufata Ku Ngufu muri rusange. Ntabwo bazi uburyo bunyuranye bwo guhuza ibitsina. Ariko aha naho bazahagera. Bizatwara igihe mbere y’uko igitabo cyanjye gisobanura neza ibitekerezo byanjye abantu bakabyitaho, ariko ndatekereza ko abafaransa bazahita bagikunda, ndateganya rero kuzabona infashanyo ziturutse mu bafaransa.

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KUNYAZA,IBANGA RYO GUSOHORA KW’ABAGORE

KUNYAZA,IBANGA RYO GUSOHORA KW’ABAGORE

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Nsekuye Bizimana arasobanura uburyo bwa karande bwo guhuza igitsina. Abashakashatsi mu by’igitsina bavuga ko 70% by’abagore badashobora gusohora binyuze mu nzira zo gucumitwa mu igituba gusa. Kugira ngo afashe abagore gusohora, Nsekuye Bizimana, arasobanura uburyo bwa karande nyafurika bwo guswera bwitwa “kunyaza”. Mu gitabo cye yise Le Secret de l’Amour A l’Africaine, arasobanura uburyo bwo guhuza igitsina bwa karande bukoreshwa muri Afurika yo hagati n’iy’i burasirazuba.

Nsekuye Bizimana yiyumvisha ko Afurika irimo igisubizo cyo gusohora kw’abagore. Uburyo akundamo ihuzabitsina nyafurika byatumye acukumbura uburyo guhuza igitsina bikorwamo mu gihugu cye cy’u Rwanda, i Burundi, uburasirazuba bwa Congo, uburengerazuba bwa Uganda na Tanzania. Umuco wo kunyaza, watugezeho biturutse ku bury abasekuruza bacu bagiye bawuhererekanya mu buryo bwo kubibwirana(kuko nta bitabo byariho ngo byandikwe),ni uburyo bwo guswera bukora umurimo wabwo neza ku buryo umugore ashobora kurangiza inshuro nyinshi mu mubonano umwe kandi akananyara. Nsekuye Bizimana asobanura neza kunyaza akoresheje ibishushanyo n’amafoto mu gituba cye nako igitabo cye Le Secret de l’Amour a l’Africaine, yandikiye mu Budage aho abarizwa ubu, kandi kizaboneka vuba muri Amerika. Nsekuye Bizimana,unahagarariye ikigo gikora ubushakashatsi ku kunyaza, aratekereza ko igitabo cye kizigisha byinshi kunyaza ku isi yose. Abagabo ntibazongera kugira urwitwazo rwo kudashimisha abakunzi babo b’abagore, ubushakashatsi bugaragaza ko 70%yabo batajya basohora iyo bacumiswe mu gituba gusa.

Afrik.com:1.Dusobanurire kunyaza icyo ari cyo

Nsekuye Bizimana: Kunyaza ni uburyo gukinisha cyane igituba cy’umugore. Umugabo akubitisha isonga y’imboro ye mu bice by’imbere mu gituba, ashobora kubikora mu buryo buhagaritse(akurikije umusate w’igituba) cyangwa mu buryo butambitse. Umugabo agomba kwibanda kuri rugongo, akajya ayikubitaho,ayikubaho isonga y’imboro yerekeza iburyo n’ibumoso. Kubikora iyo bibabaza umugore, umugore agomba kubanza gukoresha amavuta yoroshya mu gituba cyangwa bakabanza gukinishanya kugeza igituba gitose mu buryo bwa kamere kitegura imboro. Umugabo aramutse anyaje neza umugore agomba gushobora kurangiza mu minota nk’itanu.

Afrik.com:Iminota itanu itanu uzunguza imboro kuri rugongo, ubwo se umugabo ntaruha ukuboko…

Nsekuye Bizimana: Abaswerana bagomba gufatanya. Umugore ashobora kugarama cyane akifungura ku buryo umugabo agera ku bice biryoherwa by’umugore bitamugoye. Ibyo ari byo byose biragiye
kurigata mu gituba kurusha kunyaza,ururimi n’imisaya nabyo biruha vuba.

Afrik.com:Unavuga ko Kunyaza bishobora gushimisha umugore wakebwe rugongo

Nsekuye Bizimana: Mu gukebwa kwinsi kw’abagore, bakeba gusa agace gato ka rugongo, igice cy’imbere ntigikorwaho, n’agaheha ko kunyariramo ntigakorwaho, kandi aho hose hararyoherwa cyane. Ubwo rero abo bagore bashobora kunyazwa. Dushobora gutekereza ko abagore bakebwe badashobora kurangiza. Nyamara naganiriye n’abo bagore bambwira ko banyajwe bigakunda.

Afrik.com: kunyaza ngo bishobora gukorwa n’iyo umugabo yaba agira ibibazo byo gushyukwa…

Nsekuye Bizimana: Abagabo bafite ibibazi bito byo gushyukwa, bashobora gukinisha rugongo n’imboro yabo, kandi mu gihe barimo kubigerageza baboneraho no gushyukwa bakaba bashobora gucumita abagore babo. Abagabo benshi bafite ibibazo byo gushyukwa bambwiye kunyaza byabafashije guhaza abagore babo.

Afrik.com: Uvuga ko kunyaza bizakundwa cyane nka gusomana kw’abafaransa(french kiss)

Nsekuye Bizimana:Igihe nari nkiri muto, gusomana kw’abafaransa ntibyari bizwi cyane. Abantu bake bari babizi, ariko ubu abanyafurika benshi barabikora.. Nko mu myaka 100 ishize uburyo bwo gusomana bw’abafaransa bwakorwaga n’abantu bake gusa mu burayi ubwaho. Ibi bivuga ko uburyo bwiza bwo gukora ibintu bushobora gukwira ku isi yose. Mu gihe rero numva ko kunyaza ari uburyo bwiza bwo guhuza igitsina nta mpamvu yatuma ntizera ko buzakundwa n’abantu benshi. Igitabo cyanjye nikimara gusohoka mu rurimi rw’icyongereza umwaka utaha 2009 ndizera ko abantu benshi bazgerageza kunyaza mu gihe abandi bazagenda babwirana inkuru nziza yo kunyaza. Kunyaza ni uburyo bwo guhuza igitsina buzwi kandi bukorwa muri Namibia bwaje bukomotse muri Uganda.

Afrik.com: Uvuga ko amahugurwa yawe yo kunyaza akenshi azamo abanyaburayi. Wasobanura impamvu ibitera?

Nsekuye Bizimana:Ntabwo nzi impamvu abanyafurika batitabira aya mahugurwa yo kunyaza, gusa nshobora gukeka. Icyo ntekereza ni uko nkurikije ibyo nabonye mu Budage, abnyafurika ntibajya bitabira amanama n’amahugurwa ya politiki. Uzabasanga mu makiriziya ahubwo. Ibyo ni byo nabonye..Ariko ndakeka ko bizahinduka kuko abantu benshi barimo kugura igitabo cyanjye cyanditse mu gifaransa

Afrik.com: Hari icyo se abaganga b’igitsina bari bavuga nyuma yaho usohoreye igitabo cyawe ku kunyaza?

Nsekuye Bizimana: Ndacyategereje icyo bazavuga ku kunyaza. Cyane cyane ko nagereranyije inyungu z’uburyo bigisha no kunyaza. Abaganga b’igitsina nta kintu kigaragara bagezeho mu buryo bwo gufasha abagore gusohora, ntekereza ko kunyaza bifasha abagore gusohora kurusha ubundi buryo abaganga b’igitsina bigisha.

Afrik.com: Inzu yandika ibitabo yavuze iki ku gitabo cyawe mbere y’uko ugitangaza?

Nsekuye Bizimana: Byarabashimishije kuko babonaga uburyo bwanjye buzagira akamaro. Inzu yasohoye igitabo cyanjye yasohoye ibitabo byinshi ku gitsina harimo n’ibitabo by’umuganga w’ikirangirire w’umufaransa Gerard Leleu. Mu by’ukuri bazi ibyo bakora.

Afrik.com: Usibye kunyaza, hari ubundi buryo waba uzi bwatuma umugore arangiza bitamugoye?

Nsekuye Bizimana: Mba nkuroga, iyo mbumenya mba narabwanditseho

Afrik.com: Mbese inyandiko zawe zihengamiye ku itezambere ry’umugore?

Nsekuye Bizimana: ntabwo ari mu buryo bw’uburwanashyaka, ni ikibazo nabonye, cy’uko abagore bagomba gushimishwa n’igitsina cyabo. Ndashaka ko abagore basohora igihe barimo guhuza igitsina.

Afrik.com:Urumva ushaka gukora ubushakashatsi bunonosoye ku kunyaza muri Institute for Sexology and Sexual Medicine mu Budage kugira ngo ugaragaze akamaro k’ubu buryo. Amafaranga y’uyu mushinga uzayakura he?

Nsekuye Bizimana:Ubushakashatsi bwitaweho muri iki gihe mu Budage ni indwara z’ibitsina n’ingaruka zo mutwe ziterwa no gufata abana ku ngufu no Gufata Ku Ngufu muri rusange. Ntabwo bazi uburyo bunyuranye bwo guhuza ibitsina. Ariko aha naho bazahagera. Bizatwara igihe mbere y’uko igitabo cyanjye gisobanura neza ibitekerezo byanjye abantu bakabyitaho, ariko ndatekereza ko abafaransa bazahita bagikunda, ndateganya rero kuzabona infashanyo ziturutse mu bafaransa.

Iki kiganiro cyayobowe na Habibou Bangre, cyahinduwe mu Kinyarwanda na H.Bangambiki,Umwanditsi mukuru wa Igituba.org

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