IBIBAZO NºIBISUBIZO KU GUSWERA

Uyu musore afite ibibazo binyuranye ku guswera. Aha turagerageza kumusubiza.

P.ibyo mbabwiye hano ni ukuri,niyo mpamvu nifuza ko mwampa amakuru nyayo kuko nyakeneye cyane.
Ndi umusore mukuru,imyaka 31 y’amavuko,sinigeze mbonana n,umukobwa cyangwa umugore muri iki gihe cyose ariko mfite fiancee tuzarushingana juillet,2009 imyiteguro tuyigeze kure.none ndashaka ko munsobanurira birambuye uburyo bwo:

-gushyukwisha bwiza,bwihuse kdi butbangamiye umwe muri twe.niba hari etapes,please mubimbwire uko zikurikirana.
-nzabwirwa niki ko mugenzi wanjye tayari yashyutswe cyane
-ngo iyo urimo guswera,akenshi abakobwa baba bataka,ese baba bababara,nzakomeze cyangwa ibyiza ni uguhita mpagarika?
-nsanze atarakunnye bivuga ko hari icyo yaba abura mukundyohereza?

Nabonye mufite umwanditsi w’umugore niba ntacyo bimutwaye azagire uruhare runini mukunsubiza niba bishoboka azampe na experience ye cyangwa y’abandi bagore kuko nifuza reussite igihe nzaba narushinze,mbaye mbashimiye,bye

bangambiki-Alo P. , nibyiza kuba waragize interet kuri blog IGITUBA.ORG.Nibyo kurushinga ubwa mbere biragora nanjye nari meze nkawe ubwo narushingaga mu1995. Sinari narigeze mpura n’umugore mu buzima bwanjye, byarantunguye rero ariko nagiye mbyiga gahoro gahoro ku buryo ubu naha umuntu inama.1.Dore ibyerekeranye no gutaka

IMPAMVU YO GUTAKA, KUNIHA, KWIRIZA KW’ABAKOBWA N’ABAGORE IYO BARIMO GUSWERWA

Mugabo rero, birya umukobwa aba yigirisha urimo kumuswera yitakisha ,yiriza ntaho bihuriye n’ububabare n’agahinda! Kandi nta n’ubwo aba yigiza nkana!-aba yaryohewe iyo umuntu ababye arataka yakwishima agataka cyangwa agaseka-umukobwa ashobora guseka murimo kubikora- cyangwa agakora ikintu kigaragaza ko yishimye)-kuniha no kwiriza ni uburyo bwo guhumeka umuntu yitsa cyane kugira ngo aturize mu maboko y’umukunzi we, akomeze kugira umushyukwe-ubushake bwo guhuza igitsina, kandi aryoherwe n’igitsina(abantu baryoherwa n’igitsina cyane iyo batuje kandi baruhutse!Iyo badatuje hari ikibirunkana ntikibaryohera baba bafite ibindi bintu ku mutima.)-ni icyubahiro aba aguhaye!ni uburyo bwo kukwereka ko ari umugore(arimo kurira no gutaka)wowe ukaba umugabo(ubugabo bwawe bumumurimo buratuma ataka-akwereka ko nta wabura gutaka umugabo amuri ho!Aba yicishije bugufi,abagabo birabashimisha.Nta washimishwa no guswera igishegabo, cyangwa igiswerabagabo.Iyo umugore aniha,yitakisha,aba akwereka ko atari kimwe muri byo maze kuvuga.-umugore abyungukiramo! Iyo amaze kukwereka ko ari umugore,umwereka ko uri umugabo, ugakora iyo bwabaga!Ni nk’ikinamico buri muntu aba azi role ye!-mugabo ariko urajye witonda
,hari ubwo ashobora gutaka ababaye,imboro yawe ndende yarenze uburebure bw’igituba,ushobora kumva agusabye kuba uretse kandi ni byiza ko muhuza ibitsina muganira kugira ngo umenye uko ahagaze.Niba mudashobora kuganira sinzi n’impamvu murimo guhuza ibitsina!Wari uzi ko iyo umugore atagukunda ntanakubahe umuswera ntiyirize cyangwa ngo anihe?Urajombagura igiti gikoma iki!Nubona bikubayeho,uzahagarare wibaze.Utunganye ibidatunganye.

2.GUSHYUKWISHA KANDA HANO http://www.igituba.org/2007/11/gushyukwisha.html

3.Umugore wakunnye araryoshya si ikinyoma kuko byoroha kumunyaza kuko imishino ye imubobeza ariko nubona utarakunnye uzamufate uko ari kandi wige uburyo bwo kumushimisha, n’abazungu ntibakunda kandi ntibabura kurongorwa no uryohereza abagabo ahanini ibyo ni ibibazo by’umuco nubwo muri cas y’abanyarwanda abagore bakunnye ari beza ku gitsina.

Urakoze gusoma iyi nkuru kuri Igituba.org, shyiraho igitekerezo cyawe, twungure inama, tubwire uko ubona iby’igitsina na experiences zawe, tubaze cyangwa utwoherereze inkuru n’amafoto ku igitsina kuri bangambiki@igituba.org cyangwa bangambiki@bangambiki.com. Ohereza umwirondoro tugushakire inshuti ku IgihozoH.Bangambiki

URWENYA-IMBEBA YASWEYE INZOVU

IMBEBA YASWEYE INZOVU!

Urwenya rwanditswe n’umusomyi/umwanditsi kuIgituba witwa LATOUTE

Imbeba yabonaga inzovu ikifuza gukora nayo amour ariko bukeye irabizindukira irayibwira
iti “wampaye” inzovu iti “iki!” imbeba iti “igituba” inzovu kuko yari yizeye ko imbeba ntacyo iri bukore irayemerera ahubwo indi iratinya ariko yikoza hirya hashize umwanya iragaruka isanga inzovu yaguye agacuho yasinziriye iyijyaho ngo iyikanike inzovu irikanga iriruka imbeba irakugendeye no mu gutwi kw’inzovu iti chérie ndakubabaje!(Uru rwenya rwatangiwe na Gaternelson asaba uwaba aruzi kururangiza Latoute arahagoboka hari ku ya 1/4/2008)

by LATOUTE and Gaternelson

Urakoze gusoma iyi nkuru kuri Igituba.org, shyiraho igitekerezo cyawe, twungure inama, tubwire uko ubona iby’igitsina na experiences zawe, tubaze cyangwa utwoherereze inkuru n’amafoto ku igitsina kuri bangambiki@igituba.org cyangwa bangambiki@bangambiki.com. Ohereza umwirondoro tugushakire inshuti ku IgihozoH.Bangambiki

URWENYA-UMUGABO WAPFUSHIJE IMVURA UBUSA

UMUGABO WAPFUSHIJE IMVURA UBUSA

Urwenya rwanditswe n’umusomyi/umwanditsi kuIgituba witwa LATOUTE

Hari inkambi imwe kubera za bulende ziba zegeranye les couples bakabura uko babitosa, nta kundi bakavumbika, rimwe rero imvura yaraguye umugore atuma ku mugabo ngo hari umushaka aho aziye aza ihise ati “apu! urabona iyi mvura upfushije ubusa!(ubwo nyine bari guprofita Rwagihuta igakora akazi kayo!

by LATOUTE

Urakoze gusoma iyi nkuru kuri Igituba.org, shyiraho igitekerezo cyawe, twungure inama, tubwire uko ubona iby’igitsina na experiences zawe, tubaze cyangwa utwoherereze inkuru n’amafoto ku igitsina kuri bangambiki@igituba.org cyangwa bangambiki@bangambiki.com. Ohereza umwirondoro tugushakire inshuti ku IgihozoH.Bangambiki

UN COMMENTATEUR HEUREUX SUR LE BLOG IGITUBA

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post “UBURYO BWO GUSWERA“:

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NI IKI NAKORERA UMUHUNGU CYANGWA UMUGABO IGIHE ARIMO KUNSWERA?

guswera
NI IKI NAKORERA UMUHUNGU CYANGWA UMUGABO IGIHE ARIMO KUNSWERA?

Diane
Ni iki nakorera umuhungu cg se umugabo igihe arimo kunswera?

IGISUBIZO

1.Bangambiki:
DIANE igihe umugabo arimo kuguswera nawe jya umuswera uryoherwe ubimwereke, WIRIZE,UNIHE,UMUNYONGERE,UMUKARESE! n’ibindi ukeka ko byamushimisha. Urukundo ni ukubwizanya ukuri no kudahishanya:ushobora kumubaza icyo yifuza ko umukorera

2.juma
diane ugomba guparticipa ,kd ukamwereka ko bigushimishije ,ntumureke ngo akore akazi wenyine,bigomba kuba 50/50

NI UBUHE BURYO BWO GUTANGA IGITUBA NEZA?

gutanga igituba
NI UBUHE BURYO BWO GUTANGA IGITUBA NEZA?

cuga: Ndagirango nshimire Latoute ukuntu akomeza kwitwara neza ku rubuga ariko namusabaga niba bishoboka ko yatunyuriramo uko umugore yiha umugabo neza. Uburyo bwo gutanga igituba neza kabisa.

IGISUBIZO

Latoute: Cuga, ndagusuhuje ariko ikibazo wambajije kiragoye gusubiza nibaza ko abakundanye buri umwe agira uko agitereka;byanaterwa na position yafashwe nuko bateguye terrain numva wasoma izi nkuru kuri page de matières naho ibyo kugitanga nkubwiye kuburambuye naba niyerekejeho ariko nugumya kwinsista uzanyandikire nzagusubiza uko bagitugira imbere kikaryohera kurushaho iyo cyateguwe neza!