DORE UKO BATANGA IGITUBA

DORE UKO BATANGA IGITUBA

Iyo umugore n’umugabo barimo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina baba barimo guhana, araguha ukamuha.Ariko bamwe babyumva nabi,hari abagore bumva ko muri uwo mukino niba yemeye gutanga igituba aba ari nkaho ari ibiryo ashyize ku isahani akigendera umuswezi/umugabo agasigara yirwanaho.Si uko biri,niba ushaka ko umugabo wawe “agupfira” ntararamire abandi bagore ugomba kumenya “kumuswera” nawe ku buryo avuga ati “igituba n’iki nta handi nagikura”kandi n’ubikora neza no kubikubwira azabikubwira si umugani.
Abagabo bakunda umugore baswera abereka ko babikunze kandi ko bari babyiteguye babishaka cyane,icyo gihe umugabo yumva afite imbaraga zo kwerekana aho abera umugabo,nawe mugore jya uhita umwereka aho ubera umugore,akurongore,umurongore.

–Ntukabwire umugabo ijambo ribi mwatangiye umuhango wo gukundana nko kumubaza ibya Nyirakanaka
-ijambo ribi rivana imboro mu gituba,
–ntukaryame nk’umutumba,
-jya ugira isuku y’igituba

Reka nkuzimurire ibintu 5 umugabo umwe yambwiye ko aba yifuza ku mugore arimo guswera:

1. Kuba yarakunnye (birebire)(iki ni igitekerezo cye abagabo ntibakunda bimwe,ushobora kuba utarakunnye ugashimisha umugabo no kurusha uwakunnye-abagore bose ntibakunnye si wowe wenyine)
2. Kuba anyara(nawe ushobora kunyara!)
3. Kuba ataka arimo guswerwa,aniha kubera uburyohe bwinshi (rimwe na rimwe akavuza n’ibihozo mu gihe njye mvuza amahamba)
4. Kuba anyonga ndetse akanamfasha mu kumuswera(kuba abwira umugabo ahamuryohera,bakabiganiraho)
5. Kuba atega amaguru neza.