Mbese abagore bose baranyara

Kunyaza cyabaye ikibazo eternelle’ buri muntu abaza uko banyaza nk’aho ari byo ‘holy grail’ yo guswera. N’abazungu ubu basigaye bigishwa amasomo yo kunyaza n’abadocteur b’abanyarwanda nka NSEKUYE BIZIMANA na Gaspard Musabyimana. Ubu ngo byaragaragaye ko abazungu batazi guswera. Kuko benshi mu bagore b’abazungu ntibazi gusohora icyo ari cyo!!Ni yo mpamvu ubu ushatse kunyaza muri Google utagwa gusa kuri site z’ikinyarwanda cyangwa ikirundi ahubwo sites mu giportugais,allemand,francais n’izindi. Abahinde ubu nibo bagezweho mu kwigisha guswera na za Kamasuthra zabo, ariko ziragoye ni nka Bibiliya. Ubu kunyaza kw’abanyarwanda n’abarundi ni ko kugezwweho. Ni byiza. Aho kugira ngo tuzamenywe gusa kubera ibibazo tugira reka tumenywe nk’abazi gukora ibyºurukundo.

mu-Bonjour?Nyuma yo kubona Site yanyu kuri internet byaranshimishije cyane none nifuje gusobanuza ibi bikurikira; Hari abantu bavuga ko hari Abagore banyara na batanyara ese nibyo?niba aribyo se byaba biterwa ni iki/mushobora se kumbyira uko banyaza?
Murakoze.

bangambiki-Komera . Abagore benshi bashobora kunyara kutanyara akenshi biterwa n’umugabo uba utazi kunyaza. Nyamara kunyaza ntibigoye impamvu abenshi batabikora ni uko batazi akamaro ka rugongo y’umugore bakumva ko kujombagura imboro mu gituba ariko guswera. Rugongo ni ingenzi mu kunyaza kanbdi gushimisha umugore utageze kuri rugongo biragora kuko ariho hirunze imyakura ijyanye n’igitsina. Kunyaza rero ntibigoye, ubona umugore amaze gushyukwa neza ukazunguza imboro kuri rugongo wihuta. Gusa ibyo ntibihagije ugomba kureba etat umugore arimo kandi akaba yashyutswe cyane ikindi icyangombwa ni urukundo no kuba umugore cyangwa umukobwa akwishimiye cyane. Iyo bimeze gutyo ukubita imboro kuri rugongo zigatungereza. ibindi bisobanuro biri hano
http://www.igituba.org/2008/06/kunyaza-byose-ku-kunyaza.html

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UMUGABO WANJYE ARANGIZA VUBA AGATINDA GUSHYUKWA

Iki kiganiro twakigiranye n’umudamu witwa witwa UJ. Avuga ko umugabo we amwicisha umushyukwe. Arangiza vuba, agatinda gushyukwa. Muri iki kiganiro turarebera hamwe umuti n’uburyo bwo kubyifatamo.

UJ-Muraho neza nasomye inyigisho zanyu ziranezeza cyane none ndagirango mungire inama mfite umugabo turakungana ishoboka kose tubyaranye kabiri,ariko iyo duhuje ibitsina ahita arangiza kandi agatinda gushyukwa,bikamusaba kuzongera nkejo kandi ntako mba ntagize mukaresa ariko ntiyongere gushyukwa,nonese umugabo ashobora kurongora umugore we kangahe mwijoro.ko numvango hari abageza kunshuro 5 byaba aribyo?.nonese mwangira iyihe nama ngo nezerwe n’umugabo wanjye nko arangiza nkimukeneye.kandi sinshobora kumuca inyuma.mumbabarire munsubize vuba kuko mwaba mumfashije.niba hari n’imiti twakoresha nabwo mwabibwira yaba iya kinyarwanda cg iyakizungu.ese bigenda bite ngo umugabo atinde kurangiza,niba ahari icyo nakora mwabibwira.ibihe byiza.

bangambiki-Mwiriwe UJ. Mwihangane gusa burya intangiriro y’umuti ni ukumenya ikibazo, ikindi burya niba byashobokaga nkibonanira n’uwo mugabo gusa niba waravumbuye www.igituba.org mbere ye kandi bikaba bigoye ko wayimwereka ndagerageza kukuganiriza wenyine nubwo uruhare runini ubu rureba umugabo.
Ni byo umugabo ashobora gukora turu eshanu mu ijoro ariko biterwa n’imibanire mu rugo n’imbaraga z’umubiri w’umugabo. Umugabo ugira imirimo imunaniza cyangwa akaba atarya neza cyangwa akunda akayoga cyane izo turu ntiyaziviramo kandi turu si zo ngombwa ahubwo icya ngombwa nuko ababikora baba banezerewe bose. Mfite umugore kandi nzi ukuntu iyo umugabo arangije umugore atararangiza umugore aba ari mu kirere kandi amerewe nabi ni aha mana kugira ngo aze gutuza abyibagirwe biragoye.
Inama nakugira ni iyi.

1. Ganiriza umugabo wawe umubwire uko uba umerewe mwarashakanye kandi murakundana. Nta cyo ugomba kumuhisha.

2.Ushobora kuba ari wowe utuma arangiza vuba mu buryo ugitanga! Niba uhise umwimariramo aracyakira da kandi agahita arangiza! Birumvikana simvuze ngo uzabigabanye ariko jya ucunga burya umugore aba yumva uko umugabo ameze!

3.Uzamubwire ntakajye yihutira gushyira imboro mu gituba niba yihuta gusohora. Mujye mubanza mukundane mukaresanye, musomane n’ibindi agukinishe n’intoki kuri rugongo niwenda kurangiza akunyaze(niba azi kunyaza-niba atabizi uzamwereke site hariho uko banyaza!)
Ashobora rwose kugushimisha akoresheje intoki mukaza kurongorana habura gato ngo urangize cyangwa warangije, kuko iyo umugore yarangije ashobora gukomeza ndetse ashobora no kurangiza inshuro nyinshi mu mubonano umwe.

4.Byose nibinanirana uzomundugikire wa mugani w’abarundi nzamwigisha. Eh Ni umugabo wawe ntacyo tumurusha ahubwo tuzungurana ibitekerezo ku buryo zubakwa

Ubundi ni karibu ku bibazo byose ufite dushobora kubiganiraho kugeza ikibazo kibonewe umuti twarabyiyemeje.

Izindi nkuru zifitanye no gusohora no gutinda gusohora

Gusohora kw’Abagabo

Gusohora kw’Abagore

Kuki Abagore Batinda Gusohora?

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IBIBAZO MU NGO

Iki kiganiro twakigiranye n’umusore umwe wifuza kurushinga tunaganira ku bibazo twasanze mu rugo rumwe. Tubitangaje dutekereza ko byagirira abasomyi akamaro. Amazina twarayahinduye
N-Reka ntangire mbambira muri make.amazi ya mukuru wanjye yo nyagize ibanga (A-M) afite imyaka 32ord.arubatse afite abana 2ninjye muto kuriwe mukurikira bwa gatatu kuko akurirwa n’umukobwa,mukuruwajye ntacyo ajya ampisha, njyewe ho fite imyaka 28 ord arikoiyo tuganiye abasha kubwira byinshi ndetse n’uko abanye n’umuryangowe,- Yabwiye ko iyo atera urubariro ku rugo rwe, atajya ashimishaumukunzi we ngo nawe yishime- // // // kandi ko adashobora gukora ishuro ebyiri akurikiranya ngobisaba ishuro 1 kumugoroba indi sasa kuminimwe za mugitondo.-Kandi ngo hari ubwo yumva afite (courage) ariko iyo agejeje igitsinacye mu cyumukunzi we ahita akibura (igitsina cye kibura Courage).-Ikimbabaza nuko ajya avuga ngo baramuroze ndetse yagiye no mubapfumu.ajya abwira ko bitakiri nkambare ariko ntabwo nibohoro ariko jyenkakeka ko aribyo yishyiramo ko ari muzima.usanga iyo nagiyeyo umugore aba abwira iby’umugabo abwira ko umugaboatajya avuga murugo ngo amubwire ibintu bimusetsa, ahubwo usangaatekereza gusa.. harubwo umugore ajya abwira ko kutaganira kwabashanyearibyo bikurura ubukene murugo kuko ntacyintu nakimwe mwagerahomutaganiye ku byurugo rwanyu.NB: ikibazo kugeza ubu fite nuko ibyo biba kuri mukuru wange bishoborakunjyiraho ingaruka kuko najye mubuzima busanzwe iyo mbonanyen’umukobwa w’ishuti yajye ndashyukwa nkarongora ariko nyuma y’iminota2 igitsina cyanjye gihita kibura apet. kuburyo umukobwa harigiheabwira ngo ubwose ukoze iki?iyo rero shyizeho (condom) igitsina ntabwo gishobora kubyuka kandi naSIDA iri hanze aha iravugiriza.nigeze kwakinisha hashize imyaka 3 ariko ntabwo byari cyane kuburyobyaba impamvu.maze gusoma bol.igituba hari byishi nakuyemo ariko nyeneye ni nama zanyuikintu kimwe nasomwe nkumva ko aricyo n’uko kurongora cyangwa gukoraimibinano mpuza bitsina ku umuhungu n’umukobwa ubanza kubitegura mumutwe mbere yo kubikora..Mugihe nyitegereje igisubizo cyane cyiza mbaye mbashimiyemugire ibihe byizamwari ku na (I.n) bay bay.
bangambiki-Komera N.! Gira ibihe byiza. Biranshimishije rwose kuba ugize courage yo kubaza ibikugoye. Burya intangiriro y’umuti w’ikibazo ni ukumenya ko hari ikibazo. Ubutaha nunyandikira ntuzivune na za adresse cyane ndi umuntu usanzwe uretse ko nkunda kwiganirira no gusetsa. Inkuru ya mukuru wawe nayumvise kandi burya wampayemo n’igisubizo. Iwacu mu Rwanda iyo umuntu ahuye n’ikibazo avuga ko bamuroze umuntu yarwara ngo ni amarozi kandi hari ighe bibaho mu buzima busanzwe. Ikibazo cyo gukundana mu ngo zo mu Rwanda kiragoye cyane kubera ko umuco wacu watubujije kubiganiraho nanjye ubivugira kuri bose babireba hari abanyita umusazi ariko iyo urebye uburyo site ikunzwe usanga hari ibyo mvuga abantu bari barabuze aho babyumvira. Imibanire y’abagore n’abagabo y’iwacu iragoye none se umugore aryama nk’umutumba ntiyinyeganyeze ibyo bishobora gutuma umugabo ata appetit, ibyo ni ibisanzwe, uzabaze niba uwo mugore ukuregera azi gutanga igituba. Mukuru wawe we ashobora kuba afite ibitekerezo byinshi mu mutwe bitewe n’imibereho ubwo ni yo mpamvu umugore avuga ko atamuganiriza. Umugabo wifitiye ibibazo by’uko urugo rwe ruzamera ntakunze kugira courage nyinshi z’igitsina. Ariko na none icyangombwa si inshuro zo guhuzamo igitsina icyangombwa ni ukugira inshuro nubwo yaba ari imwe bose bagahaga. Ntabwo ndi aho ngo mbonane n’abo bene data ariko uzabihanganishe ubabwire ko bagomba kwiga uburyo bwo kubana no gushimishanya.
Naho kuri wowe Sida iri hanze aha iravugiriza wa mugani wawe. Kandi uri muzima nta kabuza gapote yo igabanya uburyohe kereka ari icyana cyaka umuriro ugiye guswera!

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UMUKOBWA YARAMBENZE-NONE NGIYE GUSARA

Ikiganiro ku bibazo by’ubuzima bw’urubyiruko nºurukundo twagiranye n’umusore uri mu bibazo byºurukundo

Umusomyi N-nkuko nakubwiye ko mfite twety eight ord mubuzima bwajye nakunze umukobwa 2004.dukundana imyaka igera kuri 4. mu kwezi kwa mbere k’uyu mwaka yajekusura dore ko aba mugiturage byumba aho akora akazi (couture)twaganiye ku by’urukundo rwacu ndetse tujya no kwipimishi virus yaSIDA dusanga turi bazima, nyuma y’ukwezi kumwe yatajyiye abwira ngoarabona ibyange bigenda bitanda. ariko nkamwihanganisha kukonateganyaga kubaka. amakuru akajyeraho ko hari umuhungu ufite inzubasigaye bapanga, sibyemere kuko numvaga ari amabwire yabantu,mbonanye n’umukobwa nkabona yarahindutse (imyitwarire). ndetseyarabwiye ngo ntashobora kubana najye ntanzu mfite, ngo nigendenubake nawe arahari.none ubu barasabye Le/20/09/2008 yarashyingiwe.ariko kuva uwo munsi ashyingiwe meze nkuwapfuye mpagaze, kuko nubyonkora byse arakomeza akanza mu bitekerezo, bataramurongora numvaga,mfite ikizere cyuko ashobora kagaruka ku murongo kuko numvaga mukundaubu bisa naho byarangiye.none rore ngira inama ya KIGABO, ubu numva abakobwa bose arabagomekuburyo numva nakundana n’umukobwa ari kugirango ampe gusa nta VISIONmufiteho.ikindi nuko numva nakundana n’umukobwa umwaka umwe gusa tugahitatubana (ese naba nihuse?). gusa ntanzu mfite, ntamashuri mfite, arikomfite akazi kampemba 60.000 buri kwezi (ndashaka kurongora muri 2009)(ndikwihuta se?).ikintu cyambabaje nuko iyo myaka yose nakundanye n’uwo mukobwanaramwubahaga cyane numva ntamusa k’igutuba (nenose niyo mpamvu atamvamu mutwe?) cg (bwari ubwana?).okay. nabonye ugira inama umuntu ngaho sibiza niyo.bay yari innocent ndayambaje kandiMFITE NINDI NAMA. (HARI UMUKOBWA TWARYAMANYE RIMWE GUSA nyumaTWABONANYE umwana afite amezi 8 ubu abwira ko umwana ari uwanjye)(inama yawe irategerejwe).

bangambiki-Komera N. Ndahari wana kandi ndi tayari kugusubiza. Wakundanye n’umukobwa arangije aragusuzugura yishakira abandi!? Rakara umukureho umutima ubuzima burakomeza kandi ubuzima bwawe ntibwubatse kuri we. Ibagirwa ibyo mwakoranye byose niba ari n’amafoto uyabike kure ntukayarebe, ibitekerezo bye nibikuzamo ujye ubyirinda wikorere ibindi. Gutandukana mu buzima bibaho n’umugore mwashakanye iyo kabaye mugahemukirana cyane muratandukana. Wari waratinye kumusaba igituba wagize neza.
Ufite imyaka 28 watinze kurongora ariko ndabyumva si wowe ni ubushobozi,njye nashatse mfite imyaka 23 ndembejwe no kwifuza abakobwa kandi nigirira isoni nanirinda kwiruka mu bakobwa nk’umusazi ariko nubona ubushobozi uzahite urongora birinda ibibazo byinshi by’ubusingolo! Ntibiterwa n’igihe umaranye n’umukobwa mukundana burya n’igihe gito kiba gihagije iyo uzi kureba imyitwarire y’umukobwa. Ariko ujye witegereza ushishoze umukobwa uri mu isabwa yitwara nka maraika ujye umenya ko amareshyamugeni atariyo amutunga.
Amashuri? Byihorere sha. Ntabanganya amahirwe kandi ntihabaho amashuri habaho umugisha. Imbaga nyinshi y’abanyarwanda nta mashuri menshi ifite kandi turaho nanjye nta mashuri mfite, nzi gusoma ibyapa gusa!!!!(ni urwenya) Ubwo rero shahu shimira Imana uko yakugize yari izi impamvu, amashuri nta mashuri ubuzima burakomeza. Ba data batize baradutunze turakura.
Uwo wateye inda byo nta cyo nabivugaho, ni wowe uzi niba warayimuteye cyangwa niba atari byo!! Gira mahoro.

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NI GUTE NASABA UMUKOBWA IGITUBA

Mbese ujya wibaza ni buryo ki wasaba umukobwa igituba. Abahungu benshi bigirira ubwoba n’isoni ntibanavumbure igihe umukobwa yabemereye. Soma aka kaganiro twagiranye n’uyu musore NJ.

NJ–nonega njewe nashaka mbaze nkubu ufise umukobwa yaki kwemereye igituba ukabura ingene ukimusaba wobigeza nte?
-warigeze kumuswera ukamara imisi utamusweye musubiye kubonana wo bigenza gute?kugira umuswere.

bangambiki-Komera NJ. Icya mbere uri umuhungu cyangwa umugabo ugomba kwimara ubwoba, umukobwa ashobora kukikwemerera atabivuze ni wowe ugomba kubimenya. Mu muco iwacu umugabo ni we ufata iya mbere ariko uzayifatane agakingirizo!!

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MBESE NSHOBORA GUHA IGITUBA UMUHUNGU MBERE Y’UKO DUSHAKANA

Mbese nshobora guha igituba umuhungu urimo kundambagiza. Iki kibazo twakiganiriyeho nºumusomyi UM mu mvugo yeruye-kuko isoni zirisha uburozi. Soma urebe niba twararashe ku ntego!!!

UM-mwiriwe muzeheeeee!ndi umunyeshuri fite umuhungu w’ishuti yajye,ariko yambwiye ko afite umwana. yabyaye hanzeubushuti mbwajye nawe bumaze umwaka umwe.ahora abwira ngo nzashake umunsi umwe mvugeko nagiye ahantu muri bene wacu hanyuma jyende turarane iwe.(yego) cg (oya)ikindi nuko mbana na mubyara wajye ubona akunda kuserereza cyanebigatuma ntekereza gushaka kandi nyikiri muto.iyo shuti yajye iherutse kugira ibyago,muri FIAMILY ye.sabye uruhushya ngo tujyane ,mubyara wajye yarabwiye ngo,nijyenda njyendere rimwe singaruke.ndarangiza kwiga uyu mwaka (cousine) Murakeze ibihe byiza muzeheeebay .

bangambiki-Komera Marceline. Yewe ni byiza ko ukundana byaba na ngombwa ugashaka, ariko kurarana n’umuhungu mutarashakana bijya bigira ingaruka mbi, ashobora kumva ko ubwo umuhaye n’abandi wabahaye kandi ga agapfundikiye gatera amatsiko, none se ntiwumva ko yigeze kubyarana n’undi mukobwa nawe byaba ho kandi ntimubane!!SSinshaka kwica ubukwe ariko ujye umusoma mukaresanye murangize ibibazo byanyu ariko igitsina mube muretse. Njye niko mbibona njye uwanjye yaranyimye ndatangara kandi haraburaga iminsi mike tugasezerana, umuhungu wihagararaho ariko ntumwime ibindi byose mukarinda mushakana, iby’uwo mwenewanyui ugutesha umutwe mwihorere ntukarakare utazavaho ukora ibidakwiye ubuzima bwawe buri mu maboko yawe wibeshye wabwonona

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IKIGANIRO CYAMBAYE UBUSA-INKUMI YIFUZA GUTUNGA IMBORO

Ikiganiro cyambaye ubusa blog Igituba yagiranye n’umusomyi w’inkumi kandi w’isugi ku bibazo byugarije abo mu kigero cye.

G.A.narabashimiye cyane ,video zose nifuzaga kubona narazibonye
amatsiko yarashize. none ko hari aho nasomye ngo gutunga imboro cyangwa igituba
umuntu yabitunga gute?
ese umuntu abitunze byamushimisha neza?
ntimumpfate nkuwasaze rwose ,reka mbabaze, ko numva nshaka kuryamana n’umuhungu ariko bikantera ubwoba n’isoni, nzabyifatemo nte?
murakoze!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bangambiki-Niko se AG urumva ari wowe wasaze cyangwa ninjye wasaze nkakora site yitwa “IGITUBA”. Ntukagire ubwoba jya ubaza ubwire n’abandi babaze turaha kugira ngo tuganire ibiyo abantu bavuga ko biteye isoni kandi ahubwo bikunda bikanakorwa na bose. Gutunga imboro: nubishaka uzajye mu iduka uyigure rwose ujye uyirongoza zitwa vibrateur cyngwa dildo. Sinzi aho uherereye mu burayi na amerika ziraboneka sinzi niba mu rwanda umuntu yabona aho yigurira imboro!!!Gusa bisaba kugura amavuta special yo kuyikoresha. Nuramuka wabizindukanye uzabaze uzayikugurisha ubundi tuzajya tubiganiraho. Ahari rwari urwenya. Ariko se utinyira iki abahungu ntiwiyemera se? Ubaye se iki. Uruzuye rwose kereka niba utinya agakoko ahoho waba ufite raison. Naho ubundi humura umuhungu ntacyo yagutwara, burya uko utinya umuhungu nawe ni ko agutinya, niba ukiri vierge byo ni ikibazo, ugomba kuzitonda ukabikora neza kugira ngo ubwa mberen ntibizakubabaze

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