IBIGANIRO KU IGITUBA 23-05 KUGEZA 24-5-2008

bangambiki: JOHN Soma ino nkuru umenye uko banyaza no kunyaza icyo ari cyo http://igituba.blogspot.com/2007/08/kunyazaguswera-umugore-akanyara.html
24 May 08, 02:33bangambiki: NKUBITO soma iyi nkuru irambuye kuri RUGONGO inkuru iri aha http://igituba.blogspot.com/2007/10/rugongo.html
24 May 08, 02:27Mwami: Igisubizo kuri UMUKUNZI: Ntushidikanye rwose genda ahubwo bahite bagutunganya, nyuma y’iminsi nka 14 nta n’uzarabukwa ko bayigutyalije !
23 May 08, 15:39umukunzi: umuntu mukuru ufite imyaka32 iyo yisiramuje igisebe kimara igihe kigana iki ngo gikire, merci
23 May 08, 11:51Mwami: Inama ya w.end : Abagore mu rugo, mwirinde gukururana cyane n’inshuti z’abagabo banyu ! Akenshi izo nshuti hari igihe ziba zishaka guca inyuma abo bagabo banyu
23 May 08, 10:54Kalisa: Ubusugi se? None se uzi ko nkino aha,usigaye ubona umwana wa 12 – 16 ans yarashize ahubwo nyina ubyaye 3 ariwe sugi iriho!!!!?? Ngaho rero mwese mwese bye byeeeeeeeeee
23 May 08, 10:30Gaternelson: Amakuru yanyu mwese, ndabakumbuye cyane nari maze iminsi mu ngendo zo guca ubwatsi!!!!! ariko ndanezerewe rwose ko noneho ngarutse aho twavuye ngasanga ario amahoro ahoze wa mugani wa Kanyombya !!!!!!
23 May 08, 08:48La toute: Umwe akumva yakunda, ntakundwe ahari, undi akumva akumva yakundwa ntakunde, simbizi!
23 May 08, 08:47La toute: Sorry!Nihariye urubuga niwo mwanya uretse ko mbasezeye ngo abandi bakomerezeho! Muhorane gukundwa no gukunda; ariko buriya ikiza ni ikihe(gukunda no gukundwa), kuko hari abataronkera rimwe izo mpano!
23 May 08, 08:43La toute: naho iby’ubusugi, ni ukugarura agafuka k’amateka, kandi abivuga akenshi bafite akbo kabahese ibitugu batareba ibirimo bakareba mu kabagenzi babo!ok ni uko njye mbibona!
23 May 08, 08:41La toute: Kugeza ubu mbona ubusugi atari ngombwa icya mbere ni urukundo no kubahana ,ibyo bizana ibyishimo birambye mu muryango, ikindi mukishimanirana mu mibonano yateguwe !
23 May 08, 08:40La toute: Ikibabaje: ngo bashatse gupima ubusugi bw’umukobwa wikarakasaga, ngo bamushyira Bougie icanye imbere atambikije, ngo arasama, bahuha mu kanwa bougie irazima! byarambabaje niba ari uko bisigaye bimeze!
23 May 08, 08:35La toute: Kalisa turi kumwe!
23 May 08, 08:21Kalisa: Buriya rero La Toute,jye numva twese duhana iyo nagize amahirwe yo kubona umwana nikubitira izitabyimbya.Hanyuma uyu wundi waje witwa Karisa we ninde yatwibwiye neza se? Turasubira mumwanya uzakuza.
23 May 08, 07:39La toute: Nema ati ndabakundakuuunda, nanjye nti nkabakundwakaza!
23 May 08, 07:37La toute: Gaternelosn ku namanziza, nawe arabuze pe! Kuki mudashakana ngo mutarurane !mboneyeho gusuhuza Cuga, Nema ,Mwami na Banga na Kalisa nako mwese mwese!
23 May 08, 07:35La toute: Shakira we ngo arinjira bikanga! injirane umutuzo nta gihunga twaguhaye karibu! utubwire n’icyo utuzaniye tugusanganize …
23 May 08, 07:34La toute: Week-end irageze mwihutire kujya koza imbunda, abatanga n’abakira mugubwe neza! Ariko ubushize narabajije sinasubizwa: hahabwa hatanga nde!
23 May 08, 07:31La toute: Mwiriwe mwese! Kalisa, sha si ukubura hari byinshi umuntu aba ahugiyeho cyane cyane akazi kuko niko gahatse byose, ngo utazi ikimuhatse areba iki igitsure ra!
23 May 08, 05:39karisa: ndabakunda nashakaga kwibariza nubuhe buryo bwo kunyaza bworoshye ese umukobwa kumushyiramo intoki cyane byaba bimushimisha byaba byiza munsobanuriye iyo umukobwa umutera karese cyane bimumwungura iki

MU BIHUGU BY’ABARABU BARACYATA IBYOMANZI MU RW’ABAYANGA

UYU MUKOBWA BAMUTEYE AMABUYE KUKO YAKUNZE UMUSORE BANYURANYIJE IDINIbamuteye-amabuye
Du'a Khalil Aswad

Idini rya Islam ribuza rwose guhuza igitsina k’umusore n’umukobwa batarashakana. Guhuza igitsina ni ibyera kandi byagenewe ababyemerewe n’amategeko igihe cyo gushakana. Mu bihugu bimwe na bimwe bya Islam igihano cyo Gusambana ni uguterwa amabuye. Ariko kugira ngo igihano gishyirwe mu bikorwa hagomba kuboneka abagabo bane babihamya. Gusambana ni icyaha gikomeye muri Islam, kuko ngo cyangiza imico y’igihugu. Islam isobanura ubusambanyi itya:

-ubusambanyi bw’ijisho bukorwa iyo utumye ijisho ryawe kureba ku gitsina udafitiye uburenganzira

-ubusambanyi bw’ukuboko iyo ukoze ku gitsina udafitiye uburenganzira

-ubusambanyi bwo mu mutima iyo utekereje guhuza igitsina n’umuntu utemerewe kugihuza na we

-ubusambanyi bw’umwanya ndangagitsina iyo ugikojeje mu gitsina utabifitiye uburenganzira

Abasore benshi n’inkumi mu bihugu byiganjemo ISLAM barihangana bakazahuza igitsina ari uko bagejeje igihe cyo gushyingirwa. Ariko hari abaca kuri uwo muco n’ayo mategeko kubera kunanirwa no kwihangana. Byose bimenyekana ku ijoro J- ijoro umugabo ahuzaho igitsina n’umugore we bwa mbere.

Ku basore biroroshye, nubwo yaba yarasambanye mbere yo kurongora, nta kimenyetso kibigaragaza. Ikibazo kiri ku bakobwa. Kuko iyo umukobwa arongowe n’umusore ubwa mbere ntave amaraso aba ari ibibazo bikomeye byerekana ko yabikoze mbere. Ibyo bibazo bikunze gutera amahane mu miryango ku buryo umusore ashobora kwanga uwo mukobwa. Mu bihugu bimwe na bimwe nka Turkiya, Palestine, Syria n’ahandi umukobwa basanze yarasambanye mbere y’uko ashakana n’umugabo ntave amaraso mu ijoro rya mbere, bavuga ko ashebeje umuryango. Basaza b’umukobwa bisabwa ko bamwica ngo bakure isoni n’ikimwaro mu muryango(honor killing).
Ishami ry’Umuryango w’Abibumbye Ryita ku Baturage(United Nations Population Fund) rigereranya ko nibura abagore 5000 bicwa buri mwaka bicirwa ko bashebeje umuryango.
Iki gikorwa cyo kwica abakobwa n’abagore bashebeje umuryango gifite amateka maremare mu mico y’abarabu, nk’uko tubibwirwa na Sharif Kanaana wa Birzeit University “abatware b’ubwoko(chefs de tribus) babonaga ko umugore ari uruganda rukora abagabo, babaga bakenewe mu kurwana intambara zo muri icyo gihe. Kuba rero umukobwa “yiyandaritse” agahuza igitsina n’undi mugabo mbere y’uko ashaka ntibibabarirwa. Nubwo byaba ari ukumukeka gusa ntabona uko yiregura kandi n’umuryango ntubona uko ubigenza keretse kumutanga.”
Umwaka ushize, muri Syria, umukobwa witwa Zahra Ezzo yaguye ku bitaro yishwe na musaza we amaze gukekwaho imyitwarire mibi irebana n’igitsina. Ibyo byatumye abategetsi bahagurukira kurinda abakobwa, ariko ntibyoroshye kuko umuco ubishyigikiye. Muri Syria hapfa hagati y’abakobwa 200 na 300 bazira ko bashebeje umuryango.

Bimeze nk’ibyo iwacu twitaga kujugunya mu rwobo rwa Bayanga.

Kugira ngo abakobwa birinde izo mpfu rero zishingiye ku gitsina, abazi ko barikoze mbere y’uko bashyingirwa bajya kwa muganga bakongera bakabadoda hymen(akabambano- ka gahu karanga ubusugi kaba mu gituba) kugira ngo bazakunde bave amaraso ku munsi wa mbere bahuje igitsina n’umugabo wabo. Hari n’indi technique yavumbuwe yo gushyira agashashi k’amaraso mu gituba, maze umuhungu yashyiramo imboro, kakameneka amaraso akisuka ku buriri!

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MU BIHUGU BY’ABARABU BARACYATA IBYOMANZI MU RW’ABAYANGA

UYU MUKOBWA BAMUTEYE AMABUYE KUKO YAKUNZE UMUSORE BANYURANYIJE IDINIbamuteye-amabuye
Du'a Khalil Aswad

Idini rya Islam ribuza rwose guhuza igitsina k’umusore n’umukobwa batarashakana. Guhuza igitsina ni ibyera kandi byagenewe ababyemerewe n’amategeko igihe cyo gushakana. Mu bihugu bimwe na bimwe bya Islam igihano cyo Gusambana ni uguterwa amabuye. Ariko kugira ngo igihano gishyirwe mu bikorwa hagomba kuboneka abagabo bane babihamya. Gusambana ni icyaha gikomeye muri Islam, kuko ngo cyangiza imico y’igihugu. Islam isobanura ubusambanyi itya:

-ubusambanyi bw’ijisho bukorwa iyo utumye ijisho ryawe kureba ku gitsina udafitiye uburenganzira

-ubusambanyi bw’ukuboko iyo ukoze ku gitsina udafitiye uburenganzira

-ubusambanyi bwo mu mutima iyo utekereje guhuza igitsina n’umuntu utemerewe kugihuza na we

-ubusambanyi bw’umwanya ndangagitsina iyo ugikojeje mu gitsina utabifitiye uburenganzira

Abasore benshi n’inkumi mu bihugu byiganjemo ISLAM barihangana bakazahuza igitsina ari uko bagejeje igihe cyo gushyingirwa. Ariko hari abaca kuri uwo muco n’ayo mategeko kubera kunanirwa no kwihangana. Byose bimenyekana ku ijoro J- ijoro umugabo ahuzaho igitsina n’umugore we bwa mbere.

Ku basore biroroshye, nubwo yaba yarasambanye mbere yo kurongora, nta kimenyetso kibigaragaza. Ikibazo kiri ku bakobwa. Kuko iyo umukobwa arongowe n’umusore ubwa mbere ntave amaraso aba ari ibibazo bikomeye byerekana ko yabikoze mbere. Ibyo bibazo bikunze gutera amahane mu miryango ku buryo umusore ashobora kwanga uwo mukobwa. Mu bihugu bimwe na bimwe nka Turkiya, Palestine, Syria n’ahandi umukobwa basanze yarasambanye mbere y’uko ashakana n’umugabo ntave amaraso mu ijoro rya mbere, bavuga ko ashebeje umuryango. Basaza b’umukobwa bisabwa ko bamwica ngo bakure isoni n’ikimwaro mu muryango(honor killing).
Ishami ry’Umuryango w’Abibumbye Ryita ku Baturage(United Nations Population Fund) rigereranya ko nibura abagore 5000 bicwa buri mwaka bicirwa ko bashebeje umuryango.
Iki gikorwa cyo kwica abakobwa n’abagore bashebeje umuryango gifite amateka maremare mu mico y’abarabu, nk’uko tubibwirwa na Sharif Kanaana wa Birzeit University “abatware b’ubwoko(chefs de tribus) babonaga ko umugore ari uruganda rukora abagabo, babaga bakenewe mu kurwana intambara zo muri icyo gihe. Kuba rero umukobwa “yiyandaritse” agahuza igitsina n’undi mugabo mbere y’uko ashaka ntibibabarirwa. Nubwo byaba ari ukumukeka gusa ntabona uko yiregura kandi n’umuryango ntubona uko ubigenza keretse kumutanga.”
Umwaka ushize, muri Syria, umukobwa witwa Zahra Ezzo yaguye ku bitaro yishwe na musaza we amaze gukekwaho imyitwarire mibi irebana n’igitsina. Ibyo byatumye abategetsi bahagurukira kurinda abakobwa, ariko ntibyoroshye kuko umuco ubishyigikiye. Muri Syria hapfa hagati y’abakobwa 200 na 300 bazira ko bashebeje umuryango.

Bimeze nk’ibyo iwacu twitaga kujugunya mu rwobo rwa Bayanga.

Kugira ngo abakobwa birinde izo mpfu rero zishingiye ku gitsina, abazi ko barikoze mbere y’uko bashyingirwa bajya kwa muganga bakongera bakabadoda hymen(akabambano- ka gahu karanga ubusugi kaba mu gituba) kugira ngo bazakunde bave amaraso ku munsi wa mbere bahuje igitsina n’umugabo wabo. Hari n’indi technique yavumbuwe yo gushyira agashashi k’amaraso mu gituba, maze umuhungu yashyiramo imboro, kakameneka amaraso akisuka ku buriri!

Iwacu se bite?