GUTANDUKANA-GUSENDA

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Kubaho Wenyine

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Gusenda umugore ni ijambo rivuga ko umugore atari we wihagurukije ubwe, ngo bavuge ko yahukanye. Umugabo iyo ashaka gusenda umugore, abanza kumugirira nabi mu bigaragara, bagatongana iminsi yose, bakarwana, akamwima imyambaro, akamubuza uburyo muri byose. Hakaba ubwo umugore yanga kugenda, ngo azanambira izo yakowe; cyangwa ngo aracyashyuhirije iyo mu nzu amazi yo kuyitera, ari ko kuyitegereza. Cyangwa hakaba ubwo umugore yanzwe afite utwana, akagira ati: “Singiye kwitera abana, reka nemere kubapfira, mbaruhiremo, hatazagira ubakubita inkonji nkiriho “.

Umugabo abwira umugore ati: “Dore inzoga ujye iwanyu kuramukanya “. Umugore agahaguruka, nuko umugabo agatuma umwe mu baherekeje umugore ngo abwire iwabo ngo: “Ng’uwo umukobwa wanyu ” Nuko iwabo bumva ayo magambo bakamenya ko umukobwa wabo yasenzwe.

Habaho n’usenda nabi, akirukana umugore yamukubise, yamucujije imyambaro, ngo ni cyo kimenyetso kizereka iwabo ibibi akora. Hakaba n’uwo basendaga yahekwaga, noneho bakamureka akagenda yigenza. Ibyo bigateranya imiryango, kuko babasendeye umwana nabi ntibamuhishire; uwo mugabo ntazongere guhabwa undi mugeni n’abo muri uwo muryango, bakazira ubwo bwoko busenda butyo. Ni cyo gituma bavuga ngo umuntu yangana n’umugeni, ntiyangana n’umuryango. Ni yo mpamvu ituma abagore birinda kwahukana, baba banga kwiteranya n’imiryango.

Impamvu isenda umugore ya mbere, ni iyo gusambana. Umugore kandi usura iyo umugabo we amwenda, cyangwa akannya ku mugabo we, arabimusendera. Umugore ngo aba yararozwe agasurankana; naho iyo annya ngo baba baramuhaye amatotwe y’inkoko.

IMIHANGO: Mgr Aloys Bigirumwami

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IMPAMVU YO GUTANDUKANA-UMUGORE

GUTANDUKANA:UMUGORE

Umugore utarakunnye, bareba umuheha muremure n’ikinyabwoya, bakabyohereza iwabo, ngo nta muntu babahaye, bigatinda bakamusenda.

Ubundi, ngo bohereza inzoga iwabo irimo uruho cyangwa igikobokobo cyo ku mwanana, ngo berekanye ko umukobwa wabo ameze nk’uruho, nk’igikobokobo kirimo ubusa.

Umugeni basanze ari umugore yarasambanye, bareba inzoga imwe mu zo bajyana iwabo, bakayishyiramo ikinetenete, kikaba ikimenyetso cy’uko yaje ari umugore.

Ubundi bohereza inzoga iwabo irimo umuheha cyangwa ingingo y’ikibonobono igegennye imitwe yombi, ngo yatobotse hose.

Umugeni basanze yarasambanye, bohereza umuheha hamwe n’umuhuranyi w’isuka kwa sebukwe, ngo bamenye ko umukobwa wabo ari umusambanyi, byatuma batandukana.

Umugore utajya mu mugongo, bamwita impa, umugabo aramusenda kuko ngo atabyara.

Umugore utanyara ngo ni igihama, baramwanga, bakamusenda.

Umugore ugira mu nda ibyara hagahora hagonga, ngo akenya umugabo we, bigatuma umugabo amusenda.

Umugore utameze insya, baramusenda, kuko yitwa ikibugabuga; ngo akenya umugabo.

Umugore urwaye intinyi; iyo amaze kurongorwa, maze ntatume umugabo amukoraho, ntatume amwegera, agahunga akavuza induru, bagira ngo arwaye intinyi. Iyo bashaka ko akira, bamujyana mu ruganda, bakamwicaza aho bacurira, atandukanyije amaguru. Nuko ibishirira bikagwa imbere ye.
Umugabo na musaza we, ni bo bonyine baba bahari. Iyo birangiye, umucuzi ngo ni we umwenda, agakira ako kanya. Abadashaka ko umucuzi amwenda, baramugurira, umugabo akaba ari we umukiza. Uwo ni we mukobwa bita ikiremba.

IMIHANGO: Mgr Aloys Bigirumwami

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IMPAMVU ZO GUTANDUKANA-UMUGABO

GUTANDUKANA:UMUGABO

Umugabo udashobora kwenda umugore yitwa ikiremba.

Umugabo udatinda ari kumwe n’umugore we, ni ikireremeko; avurwa n’ubugurube.

Umugabo utinda cyane, umugore ndetse akavuza induru, bakarwana iteka ntabyara yitwa igihashi.

Umugabo w’umunyamwete muke, utikoza umugore, kereka amaze iminsi myinshi, aba arwaye intinyi.

Umugabo udakinisha umugore we, ntamuhendahende, barangana bagatandukana nta kabuza.

IMIHANGO: Mgr Aloys Bigirumwami

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NYUMA YO GUSHYINGIRA-KUBONERA URUGO

Umugore ugiye mu mugongo ubwa mbere amaze gushyingirwa, byitwa ” kubonera urugo “. Uwo munsi ntaramukanya n’abandi, ntasangira n’abandi, ngo batamwicira; kandi ntiyambuka umugezi ngo yahora arwara.

Iyo umugore aboneye urugo, nijoro ashaka uko abivuga. Buracya bagashaka uruho rw’isugi, bakazana amasaka, abageni bagasya, bakajya kuvoma. Uruho rw’isugi baruvomesha amazi bakabatega imbehe iriho amazi ku irembo, cyangwa mu gikari, bakadahamo bombi, bakayasuka mu nkono bombi, bagashyiramo ifu bakavuga bombi, bikaba birangiye, bagashyira intara hanze, n’uburo n’inzuzi n’amasaka; umugore akenda ishaka rimwe agashyira mu nkuri (Ni igicuma umugore ajyana iw’umugabo we) akajyana inyegamo ayitwikiriye, ntibura. Akagera igihe ajya iwe, nyirabukwe, agashaka inkono y’isugi n’umwuko w’isugi, maze akayishyira ku ziko, nuko umugore noneho akajya iwe, ntiyongere kuba kwa sebukwe.

IMIHANGO: Mgr Aloys Bigirumwami

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NYUMA YO GUSHYINGIRA-GUTWIKURURA


Umugeni aratinya, akihisha ntagaragare, kugera igihe bagira ngo nagire umurimo akora. Umugeni. ntiyagaragara byeruye, ntiyagira imirimo akora yo hanze batamutwikuruye. Benga inzoga, ari inzagwa, ari iz’amarwa; bagasya ifu y’amakoma mu twibo tune, bagashaka n’amata mu byansi bibiri, bakabijyana iw’umukwe, bagerayo bakabitereka mu rugo, inzoga zikanyobwa. Imbere hajya musaza w’umugeni, hagati uwarongoye, hagataho umugeni, nyirabukwe akamukurikira, hagakurikiraho nyina wabo; bagera ku irembo bagakoza amaboko ku bikingi by’amarembo, uwa mbere aho akoze n’abandi akaba ari ho bakora; bagakora no ku ruhamo rw’umuryango hose, bakahakora gatandatu; byarangira bakabyinira mu rugo hagati, umugabo n’umugore bakajyanamo, sebukwe akamuvanamo amuhaye isuka cyangwa ihene.

Ahandi, iwabo w’umukobwa bashaka amafu n’amata menshi, ariko iteka umubare ukangana ntibibe igiharwe. Bamara kubibona bagatuma ku mukwe wabo ngo niyitegure abashyitsi. Abakobwa b’amasugi ni bo bikorera amafu, bajyana kandi n’agafu mu kebo bita nyabwanure; iyo bageze munsi y’urugo, barakamena ngo: “Turamennye ntabwo dusubira kumena. Bakagenda bagasanga baciye ibyobo mu rugo bagaterekamo inzoga.

Mushiki w’umuhungu akaza akazihitamo ngo kuko yamuhaye impundu umunsi arongora. Nuko akayijyana mu nzu, agaha abandi bakobwa. Izisigaye abagabo bakazinywa bakabyina.

Iyo bigeze mu museke, barika umutsima, bakabuganiza n’ amata, uko ari batatu: umugabo, umugore na musaza w’umugore. Bashyira inkono ku ziko ku mashyiga mashya, bagashyiramo ifu. Icyibo kirimo ifu abanza kukigera ku mutwe no ku nkono, ngo bituma umutsima utubuka. Bakazana umwuko bakavuga. Bati: “Inkono irahiye “. Umutsima wamara gushya, na none uko ari batatu bagahakura, bakarya.

Ku gasusuruko bagasohora umugeni, bakabyina, ngo:” Yee, ngwino ndebe aho bagakubise, Yee, ngwino ndebe n’ejobundi tuzazigereho “. Byarangira bakamwogosha bakamukuraho amasunzu. Habanza sebukwe agakuraho agasatsi gakeya, n’umugabo we; barangiza bagatanga icyo bashatse cyose cyo gukuraho amasunzu, bakabona kumwogosha, amasunzu bakayamaraho. Nuko bagaherekeza abaje gutwikurura, bagataha.

Ku mugoroba w’umunsi batwikuruyeho, umukwe akaba yashatse inzoga n’ifu bakajyana n’umugore we guca mu irembo. Inzoga zikanyobwa, bakarika bombi. Noneho bakabona kujya baza kwa sebukwe uko bashaka ntibabe bakinyura mu cyanzu nka mbere batarasubya amaguru.

Ahandi, iwabo w’umukobwa bikorera inzoga n’agatebo k’ifu bashinzemo ishaka, bakabijyana mu gitondo cyangwa nimugoroba, bakaza kumutwikurura. Iyo abatwikurura bamaze gutaha, abageni bajya iwabo w’umukobwa, bakajya guca mu irembo. Baba babiteguye: amayoga akanyobwa; bajya gutaha bagakura umubyare w’insina, umukwe n’umugeni bakawutera bombi bafatanyije, bagatera n’isogi n’ibishyimbo n’inzuzi.

Byarangira bakabakwikirira isuka mu yo basabishije; sebukwe yaba ari umukire akabaha intama y’ikibono; ndetse bakabaha n’ibiseke n’ibicuma.

Umuntu atwikurura uko yifite. Ufite byinshi, atwikuruza byinshi, ufite bike akajyana bikeya. Bamwe bajyana inzoga zagera no kuri mirongo itatu; abakene bazigeza ku icumi. Abajya gutwikurura, bareba inzoga n’imyaka: ibishyimbo, n’amajyeri, bagashyira mu byibo, binganya umubare n’inzoga. Iyo myaka bayiminjiraho ifu hejuru, ngo ibyo biri mu byibo byose byitwa ifu, akebo karimo ifu yihariye ni ko nyabwanure konyine. Bareba kandi n’amata mu byansi bigeze nko kuri bine cyangwa bitanu. Nuko abari bwikorere ibyo gutwikuruza, bakabatega ingasire n’umwuko, umugore ubonetse wese, mu rugo barabimuha; akabijyana mu bikingi by’amarembo hagati; abanza ingasire hasi, akayigerekaho umwuko. Abikoreye ibitwikurura bagatambuka ibyo babateze bakozaho ino ry’ikirenge, bose bakagenda barikojejeho, ngo ni ukwanga ko baza kumena ibyo bikoreye; kuko ingasire ari ikinanira, ikababuza kumena; umwuko na wo ukaba cyokora, bakaba bari bwokoke bose ntihagire umena. Iyo hagize umena, biba bisuriye nabi uwo bagiye gutwikurura, ngo akazapfusha umwana w’imfura ye.

Iyo bamaze kwikorera ibitwikurura, bamena ifu nkeya yo mu kebo ka nyabwanure, bavuga ngo baramenye nta kundi; aba ari ukugira ngo nibaza kugira ibyago hakagira umena, byoye kugira icyo bitwara umugeni, kuko bamaze guca imiziro yabyo.

Umugeni utwikururwa babanza kumuhekesha umwana agatega n’urugori. Kera yabaga yambaye ubutega. Nuko bagatura inzoga, bakanywa ndetse bakabyina, bigatinda abageni bakajyanamo bakabyina; igihe bateye ngo: ” Aye, ngwino ndebe… “

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NYUMA YO GUSHYINGIRA-GUTEKESHA, GUKURAHO AMASUNZU, GUCA MU CYANZU

Iyo umugeni agiye guteka, babanza kumutekesha. Ababyeyi b’umuhungu warongoye bazana inkono n’ikibindi cyo kuvomesha n’uruho rwo kudaha amazi, n’urwo gukarabisha, bakazana n’amashyiga bakayatera, bagatereka inkono ku ziko. Bakazana intango ebyiri z’imyaka, cyangwa umutiba. Abafite urutoki bagatanga ingabire yarwo, n’umurima w’ibishyimbo n’uw’ibijumba. Inkono yamara gushya ababyeyi n’abana bakarya. Ibisigaye bakabishyira mu cyibo, bakareba n’inzoga, bakabijyana kwa sebukwe w’umuhungu, na bo bakabirya. Batabiriye mu gutekesha, ntabwo baba bakiriye ibyo kurya biturutse kuri abo bana, ngo babiriye byabakenya.

Ahandi, iyo iwabo w’umugeni bagiye kumusura, bazi ko ubukene butazareka batwikurura vuba, kandi bazi ko n’uwo bashyingiye yifuza ko umugeni we yajya agira imirimo akora y’ahabona, bashaka inzoga n’ifu mu kebo, ari yo nyabwanure. Bagerayo, bamaze kunywa izo nzoga; nyirabukwe w’umugeni agahamagara umugeni, bagashyigikira inkono yo kuvugiramo umutsima wa ya fu yaje muri ya nyabwanure. Bamara gushyigikira, bagaterura inkono ivuga hamwe n’umugabo na nyirabukwe, bagafatanya gusukamo ifu uko ari batatu; bagafata umwuko, bakavuga akanya gato, bakareka umugeni akavuga akarangiza. Uwo mutsima bawuryaho n’abo muri urwo rugo bose uko bangana, ntawe utawuryaho.

Ubwo buryo bwo gutekesha barabunegura, kuko gufasha umugeni amashyiga babivuga nabi, ngo:” Nyirakanaka ntiyatwikuruwe, yakojejwe ku mashyiga, ngo yararikiwe, cyangwa ngo bamukojeje mu ziko “. Ni cyo gituma iwabo w’umukobwa batinda, bakazagaruka kumutwikurura, ntibarekere aho. Akebo ka nyabwanure ntibakajyana, gasigara kwa sebukwe w’umugeni, bakakabika ahakomeye; iyo kabuze kaba gakunguriye umugeni, bigatuma atabyara, n’iyo abyaye apfusha umwana w’imfura ye. Ako kebo gakomera kwa sebukwe w’umukobwa, nk’uko igicuma cyagiyemo inzoga y’umwishywa we gikomera kwa se kuko na cyo kibikwa ahiherereye, ngo kitameneka uwo mukobwa atarabyara. Iyo kimenetse atarabyara, ntaba akibyaye, n’iyo abyaye apfusha uburiza bwe.

Iyo umugeni bamaze kumukoza mu ziko, bamukuraho amasunzu. Sebukwe arabanza akamuha ikintu: intama cyangwa isuka, cyangwa insina, ni uguhoza umukobwa kuko aba arizwa n’uko bamukuyeho amasunzu. Umutunzi amuha inka y’uko amukuyeho amasunzu, ikitwa inka y’amasunzu, ikaba ingarigari ye ntihagire uyimutegekaho; n’ikindi cyose ahawe uwo munsi acyitegekaho uko yishakiye.

Umugeni utaratwikururwa, iyo agiye iwabo, aca mu cyanzu iyo nta cyanzu iwabo bagira, aca mu marembo, ariko babanje kuyatambikamo inkoni, umugeni akayirenga. Yaba yazanye n’umugabo we iwabo, iyo nkoni bakayirenga bombi, noneho bakajya biyizira uko bashatse, kugeza igihe bazabonera inzoga zo kurangiza umuhango wo guca mu irembo.

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KURONGORA NO KURONGORWA-NYUMA YO KURONGORA

Iyo irongora rirangiye, abakwe barasohoka, bakikoza hanze bakagaruka, abasangwa bati: “Murakaza “. Na bo bati: “Muragasangwa ibyo ngo ni byo gukomeza umwuzuro; umubano w’abashyitsi n’abasangwa “.

Umugabo mukuru mu bakwe, ati: “Nimuceceke mwumve uko bantumye. Nguwo umugeni w’ineza, ntimwaduhemukiye na twe ni uko, nta nabi yanyu na twe; ngo uzamushishirire nk’uko na we yagushishiriye “. Umukuru mu basangwa na we ati:” Nuko, icyakora yatumye neza, tuzamushishirira kandi ni twe twishishirira “. Abakwe na bo bati: “Turabashimye “.

Abandi ngo: “Nguwo umugeni w’ineza, uzaguheka; kandi ngo nta nabi yacu na mwe, ngo uramushishirire nk’uko na we yagushishiriye; uramuherekeze nk’uko na we yaguherekeje “. Usubiza na we akamusubiza mu magambo meza nk’ayo.

Cyangwa ngo:” N… yantumye ngo wamusabye umugeni none yagushyingiye ni byiza, uko yagushishiriye na we uzamushishirira “. Uwashyingiwe ati: “Ni byiza na twe tuzamufatira neza, kandi nitwe twifatira neza, turabashimye cyane “.

Abandi ngo: “Nimugire umwami rubanda”. Bose bati: “Turamushimye”. Ati: “N… yantumye ngo waje kumwaka inka, none ngiyo, uyiragire ku iriba, uyiragire mu nzira… ” Bose bakamuhereza amaboko, bati:” Aragahorana inka “. Bagaceceka. Nyir’urugo ati: “Ugende umubwire uti: “Yaje kukwaka umugeni, none uramumwoherereje, uragahoraho,
uragahorana umugeni, uragahorana inka “. Impundu zikavuga, abivuga bakivuga, bakabyina, bakabatekera ibyo barya; abagabo bakababagira itungo bakabavugira n’imitsima myinshi, nuko abakwe n’abasangwa bakarara babyina ijoro bakarikesha.

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KURONGORA NO KURONGORWA-KWAKIRA UMWISHYWA

Ababyeyi b’abashyingiwe, ntibararana ku munsi wo gushyingira abana babo, kereka babanje kwakira umwishywa, ngo baticira abana babo, bakababuza kubyara. Abashyingiwe na bo ntibararana ababyeyi babo batarakira umwishywa, ngo badapfa.

Bashyingira nimugoroba, mu maryama umuhungu akarongora agatera umwishywa, maze mu museso abashyingiwe bakamara amavuta. Abajya kubwira ababyeyi b’umugeni ko kurongora kwarangiye, bagenda ijoro ryose ndetse n’umunsi wose; bakabageraho mbere y’irindi joro, abashyingiwe batarararana.

Umwishywa barongoje bawucamo kabiri; igice kimwe kikajya kwa se w’umuhungu, ababyeyi be bakawakira, ikindi bakagishyira ku ntango y’inzoga bakacyohereza iwabo w’umukobwa, bakawakira, bakanywa n’iyo nzoga ya nyina. Batawakiriye ngo byabakenya, abana babo ntibazabyare. Iyo ababyeyi bamenye ko abana barongoye, bakira umwishywa ako kanya.

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KURONGORA NO KURONGORWA

Umugeni n’abakwe iyo bamaze kwinjira mu nzu, umuhungu urongora, araza akambika umukobwa umwishywa mu ijosi, akavuga ati: “Ndakurongoye, ndi N…” Umugeni akawikuramo akawujugunya hasi, abari aho bakawutora, bakawushyira ababyeyi b’umugeni. Umuhungu akongera akabunda intama y’ amata akayamucira. Utayafite akamucira inzoga ivanze n’umubazi, ngo azabyare atunge. Ngo ni ko Ryangombe yabigenjeje.

Nuko bose bamara kwicara, abakwe bagahabwa inzoga. Uwa mbere agasoma agacira, undi ni uko, undi ni uko. Abakwe bakabazanira indi, akaba ari yo banywa. Ni ko abakwe babigenza, ntabwo banywa inzoga ya mbere. Abakobwa ntibanywa batabagaburiye. Abakobwa b’abasangwa bakabyina bagira ngo babumbure abashyitsi. Abashyitsi bamara gushira impumu, na bo bakabyina ijoro ryose.

Igihe cyo kurongora iyo kigeze, umukwe ajyana na muramu we afite inkongoro y’isugi, irimo amata y’inka y’isugi (itarapfushije), n’imbuto z’imibazi, bakavanga n’ayo mata. Nuko bagera aho umugeni ari, umuhungu agasoma ku mata, agafata umwishywa mu ntoki, agacira umugeni mu mutwe, akamwambika n’umwishywa mu mutwe cyangwa mu ijosi, akivuga ati: “Ndakurongoye, ndi inkuba ya N…” Bakavuza impundu. Umugeni akarira. Abakobwa bakabyina cyane, ngo hatagira uwumva umugeni arira. Sebukwe akaza akamuhoza cyangwa umugabo we akamuha inka, ikindi kintu, inigi cyangwa umuringa.

Ubwo bikaba bibaye gatatu baha umugeni inka cyangwa ikindi kintu. Hari inka yo mu irembo, iyo kumukura ku bibero n’iyo kumuhoza amaze guterwa umwishywa.

Umukobwa aba yicaye mu Kinyaga ari ho mu mbere hamwe n’abandi bakobwa, bakazimya umuriro, abandi bakobwa bakigirayo. Nuko umugore waje gushyingira akerekana umutwe w’urongorwa. Umuhungu akamujugunya umwishywa ku mutwe, akamuciraho n’imbazi, akivuga ati: “Rira ndakurongoye inkuba ya N…” Umukobwa akarira, abakobwa bakavuza impundu, bakabyina cyane ngo hatagira uwumva umugeni arira. Byarangira hashize umwanya umugabo we akaza kumuhoza, ati: “Hora nguhaye inka ya Sebinaga n’ibisabo byayo bibiri “. Umukobwa yaba yanze guhora, bakabwira sebukwe agatanga ikintu cyo kumuhoza.

Ahandi, kurongora kwaho, ni ukuzana agacuma karimo inzoga, umukobwa agasomaho, nuko umuhungu akayimara, impundu zikavuga, ngo ararongoye.

Aho amata atari, barongoza amarwa. Haba n’abarongoza igikangaga; kuko na cyo ari gikuru mu Rwanda.

Urongora iyo ajya kwambika umugeni umwishywa ubwo urongorwa aba ari mu bandi bakobwa benshi bamupfukiriye haza umugore mukuru uvangura urongorwa mu bandi, kugira ngo umuhungu ataza kurongora utari uwo yagenewe. Ntihaba habona, kandi kirazira kumurika umugeni. Uwo mugore aba ari mushiki w’urongora, ni na we ugenewe guha musaza we impundu mbere y’abandi. Uwo mugore afata ku mutwe w’umukobwa; nuko akamwambika umwishywa akamucira mu mutwe ati: “Rira ndakurongoye, ndi inkuba ya Rwandekwe, ndi Nkubito ya ruhamya ruhanika mu nkuba, ndi uwo bikanga mu rukubo, nkomeretsa urugamba ntirugende mwanga w’inkuba nkubitana ijabo “.
Iyo avuze ati: “Rira ndakurongoye, atangiye kwivuga, bashiki be bavuza impundu n’abandi bakobwa bose bati: “Ahiii icyo gihe umugeni akarira”; abakobwa bakavuza impundu, bakabyina imbyino zimuhoza batera hejuru cyane, kugira ngo hatagira uwumva ijwi ry’umugeni urira.

Abajya kurongora bagira vuba, ijoro ritarakomera, kugira ngo barongore impyisi itarahuma. Iyo impyisi ihumye batararongora, ntibaba
bakirongoye ngo ubwo iba ibakunguriye. Bareka kurongora bikongera kuragurizwa, bakazaba barongora ubundi. Kuko impyisi ngo iba yabasuriye ko umwe muri bo azapfa, abasigaye bagasigara bahuma barira.

Umukobwa urongowe yaragumiwe, umurongora, mbere yo kumushyiramo umwishywa no kumucira imbazi, abanza kumugera ishoka ku mutwe, kugira ngo adakenyuka. Amara kuyimugera, umugabo akabona kumucira imbazi no kumushyiramo umwishywa.

Umukobwa wagumiwe, iyo bashaka ko atazakenya umugabo, bamuha igiti cyitwa” mukuru “, n’akamaramahano. (mukuru ikuraho amahano) Bamuha n’isubyo n’inganzo, agacira no muri mugore, mugabo akayinyaramo, bakabijyana mu mayirabiri, ngo abagenzi baharenga, bajyane ayo mahano. Ibyo byose bigatuma uwo mukobwa adakenya umugabo umurongoye. Koko uwo mugabo aba yemeye kuba impangazi, agahangamura uwo abandi batahangaye baramutinye.

Umugore w’umusumbakazi iyo ajya gutaha mu nzu, agera ku gikingi cy’irembo akakivunaho agati, maze akagaruka akagashyira nyina akakamuhereza, nyina ati:” Uragende wubake, urugo rwawe ruzafate nk’icyo gikingi cy’irembo uvunnyeho ako gati “. Nuko bakamucyurira umugabo we. Nyirabukwe iyo amubonye, aravuga ati:” Uranzire neza, uranzire nk’aba mbere “. Yamara kwicara nyirabukwe akazana amata yuzuye inkongoro agahereza umukazana, avuga ati:” Nguhaye amata yuzuye, na we uzanyuzurize nk’uko nanjye nkujurije uku nguku “. Yaba adafite amata, akamuha inzoga y’amarwa yuzuye agacuma, amubwira kwa kundi ngo aramwujurije, ngo na we azamwuzurize amata meza mu Rwanda nk’uko na we yayamuhaye. Urwagwa rurazira, rwitwa inshike.

IMIHANGO: Mgr Aloys Bigirumwami

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KORONGORA NO KURONGORWA-KUMENYEREZA NO KURISHA UMUGENI

Kumenyereza umugeni:

Umenyereza umugeni aba ari muramukazi we; iyo atagira muramukazi we, batira umukobwa muri bene wabo cyangwa mu nshuti zabo, wo kwarika uwo mugeni, kugira ngo ajye amwuhagira, amuryamishe, baganire, Ni na we ujya kumubyutsa, butaracya. Nta mugeni ujya mu mihana atari yatwikururwa, baramwirukana, kuko aba amennye uruhimbi, akaba ari n’inkozi y’ishyano.

Kurisha umugeni mu Rukiga:

Bugicya, iwabo w’umukobwa bashaka inzoga n’ipfukire bakabijyana iwabo w’umukwe. Bajyana inzoga ebyiri; nuko bakagenda ngo bagiye kurisha umugeni, kuko aba yaraye aho atariye, ngo ni ukugira umutima n’isoni bimubuza kugira icyo arya. Ab’iwabo ni bo baza kumumara isoni, bakamusangiza n’umugabo we. Umugeni udatinya ngo yange kurya, bamwita igisambo.

Ahandi, umugeni asangira na baramukazi be hamwe n’umugabo we, bakamumenyereza batyo, kugera igihe iwabo bazazira kumutwikurura.

IMIHANGO: Mgr Aloys Bigirumwami

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