IBINTU NANGA KU MUGABO WANJYE

IBINTU NANGA KU MUGABO WANJYE

1.SINIFUZA KO UMUGABO AMVA IRUHANDE

Njyewe narwaye kumva nshaka ko umugabo wanjye atamva iruhande. Buri gihe mba numva mushaka kandi yanswera nkasa nkaho nsaze biryoshye cyanee, hari ubwo mubuza kujya ku kazi nzakore iki?

Bangambiki:Ni byiza kuba umukunda cyane. Mujye mushaka umwanya muhuze igitsina mushirane amapfa. Ariko ugomba kumureka akajya ku kazi. Urukundo rwonyine rutagira akazi ntiruzazana ibiryo ku meza, kandi nimumara gusonza byanze bikunze muzarebana ay’ingwe, mwitane bamwana. Kuko “imfura yanyuze aha ari iyariye!” Unyibukije kano karirimbo k’Impara “Nzi ko nta rurabo rutoha rutuhiwe
Nzi ko akazi k’ubu
Kabonwa n’uwo zereye
Nubikiwe imbehe
Ko naba nka Bihehe se wambona he
Ko ntaba nkikubereye
Naho wankunda nge sinagukundira
Ntacyo nemeje
Inzara igutema amara”

2.SINJYA NYARA-UMUGABO ARABIMPORA.

Ngewe ibyo abagore bandi bavuga byo kunyara simbigira yewe bavuze ngo ninywa biere nzatangira kunyara ariko nubu umugabo wanjye amaze kundambirwa sinyara byarananiye mbigirente?

Bangambiki:Arakurenganya. Kunyara barabyiga.Umugabo agomba kuba azi kunyaza, umugore agomba kuba yujuje ibyangombwa bituma anyara. Hari nubwo umugore ashobora kuba atanyara. Urukundo rugomba kwihanganira byose n’utanyara ukamukunda uko wamusanze

3.UMUGABO ANYICISHIJE INKONI

Umugabo anyicishije inkoni: buri uko mvuye ku kazi umugabo anyambura ikariso agatangira kuyinukiriza maze akamponda ngo nasambanye n’abacuruzi kandi n’ukuri kuva nshakanye nawe sindamuca inyuma; ni umusirikare none ngiye kureka akazi kandi ahembwa urusenda mbigire nte?

Bangambiki:wireka akazi,urwo rusenda ahembwa rutazabarya mu maso. Ahubwo nimwubake urukundo. Mwegerane mutere imbere. Mugerageze kwicisha bugufi umwe ku wundi mwibuke amasezerano mwagiranye yo kudahemukirana.

4.UMUGABO WANJYE ASWERA UMUKOBWA WANJYE

Nashatse umugabo mfite umwana none mfite impungenge z’umwana wange w’umukobwa:buri gihe iyo ngiye ku kazi umugabo asubira imuhira akajya kumusambanya ku buryo umuyaya wa mbere yanyibiyeho akabanga mpita umwana mwohereza muri boarding school(ishuri biga babamo-internat) ariko umugabo asigaye amusangayo akamusambanyirizayo nkabimenya. Ngiye gusara koko mparikwe n’umwana wanjye? Mfite imyaka 40 kandi umwana afite imyaka 18, nzakore iki ko ndushye? Nyamugabo ntakinyikoza namba ahubwo yaguriye icyana cye (umukobwa wanjye) telephone. Nabonye ibere ry’umwana wange uko risigaye ringana rishinze mu gituza, ndeba ikibuno n’ikimero, ndamwihererana turi ku ishuri ngo ndebe ko nahana andanga utwatsi-umugabo wanjye yaramuryoheye!
Ngirente se koko bakobwa bahetse?

Bangambiki: Ni agahomamunwa. Uramutse ufite igisubizo wafasha uyu mubyeyi.

5.UMUGABO WANJYE NTANKUNDA

Nashakanye n’umugabo ankunda tumaranye imyaka itatu yose ariko nabara incuro tubikoze(duhuje igitsina). Buri gihe aba avuga ngo njye kwa masenge ambwire uko abagore bandi bafata abagabo, none ejo bundi yarambwiye ngo ntakinshaka mu rugo rwe. Narangije kaminuza ambuza gukomeza njya kumufasha gucuruza. Iyo antuma kwa masenge atarantera umwanya?

6.UMUGABO WANJYE NTASHYUKWA-KUKO ATANSHAKA

Umugabo mukora buri gihe ku imboro ntihaguruke, nagira nti “tora igituba” ati “ndiruhiye”nyamara natirimuka imuhira agashyukwa, agakunda abagore, agafata umuyaya akamugarika,akamuswera; nabahindura nkazana abasa nabi nabo akabasa none aho nzaniye abahungu azana abayaya b’abaturanyi akabasambanyiriza iwanjye! Mfite imyaka 28 mfite umwana kandi ndi ihogoza sinumva ukuntu umugabo wanjye angurana abayaya.

IGISUBIZO

Umugabo wawe yikundira igituba cy’ikibano. Umurimo wawe ni uwo kumuguyaguya no kumwiyegereza, ugahindura uburyo ujya umuha ku buryo ugerageza kumuhaza. Jya wirinda intonganya na we n’ibindi byamubera urwitwazo byo gutuma akuzinukwa burundu akikurikirira abo “bayaya

7.UMUGABO WANJYE W’UMUSINZI ARANSWERA CYANE

Nge umugabo wange buri gihe aza yasinze kandi ari nako anuka itabi n’inzoga byose akabimariramo. Nta na rimwe ansaba igituba neza ahubwo aba ansanze mu bitotsi akambyutsa ntumva ntabona, akanyicaza, akankunguta nkanyara nk’uko abishaka nk’amasaha abiri nkageraho nkumva ngize isesemi .Abikora buri munsi, ngera ku kazi ntura ibishyito!

IGISUBIZO:Ibibi birarutanwa. Naba nawe agusindira agukubita imboro nta gukubite nkinkoni nk’izo kwanura ibirago!cyangwa ngo aze yanyweye yanasweye yarangije! Nubwo utejeje arko ntiwirabuje. Harira nyirubukozwemo rero.

8.UMUGABO WANJYE YIKUNDIRA MURUMUNA WANJYE-NJYEWE ARANDYA!

Umugabo wange ambonera kundya gusa wagira ngo iyo ambonye yumva atanshaka kandi abana banjye ni bato sinabasiga. Namusabye ngo nibura agabanye inzoga ariko yaranyishe ngo ntazo mugurira kandi karumuna kanjye yagakuye umutima buri gihe aragafata akagasaba igituba nako ntikamwime, none akana karanganyira nkabura uko nabigira. Simfite aho nshyira uwo mukobwa kuko ni umugabo wanjye umurihira amashuri ngire nte?

IGISUBIZO: Mba nkuroga na so, ubu nanjye byanyobeye. Cyokora jya ugerageza kuguyaguya uwo muganji ahari azagarura agatima. Ariko se ko ikigusha ukizi nta kuntu uwo mwana wamushyira ahandi akamufashirizayo cyangwa ukabwira uwo mwana ukamuhakanira mu kinyabupfura.

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IBIBAZO KU KUNYAZA

Abagore-Ibyo abagabo bakunda kureba

IBIBAZO KU KUNYAZA

1.KUKI ABAGORE BATANYARA KIMWE

Kuki abagore bose batanyara kimwe?

Bangambiki:

Abagore ntibanyara kimwe kuko abagore batandukanye nk’uko abantu muri rusange batandukanye. Kunyara k’umugore biterwa n’ibintu byinshi:
-kuba yarakunnye akagwiza birafasha
-imirire ye
-umugabo uzi guswera akanyaza
-kuba umugore afite umutekann’amahoro mu rugo kandi akundanye n’umugabo we. Ntibyoroshye kunyaza umugore urakaye cyangwa uhorana intimba
-rugongo:guswera ni rugongo, kunyaza ni rugongo.
-kunyaza ni ukubyimenyereza: niba umugore atanyaye uyu munsi ntibivuga ko adashobora kunyara

2.MBESE KUNYAZA BIRABABAZA

KAREMERA Jean Claude: Kuki abagore cg abakobwa bo mu bindi bihugu nka Zimbabwe iyo uri kubaswera ugashaka kunyaza ubona batabikunze kandi baba barakunnye byaba bibabaza umukobwa iyo bamunyaza?

La toute: Kunyaza kabisa ntibibabaza, keretse k’ubw’umuco cyangwa idini barababwiye ko ari umwanda.

Bangambiki:Kunyaza ntibibabaza iyo bikozwe neza. Ugomba kunyaza umugore amaze gushyukwa neza kandi amaze gushaka cyane guhuza igitsina ni bwo rugongo iba yakomeye yiteguye.

3.MBESE UMUGORE CYANGWA UMUKOBWA ASHOBORA KWINYAZA?

Nema: Ariko,umugore cy umukobwa ashobora kwinyaza mugihe yikinisha?

La toute: Kwinyaza wikinisha birashoboka ariko bisaba gutekereza uwo mubikorana cyangwa muherukanye! Zirameneka ariko ntizishirayo! ku barwara nk’umutwe na bas ventre biroroshya!

cuga: Kwinyaza ntabwo njye mbyemera cyane cyane ko haba hari abagabo baba babuze abo banyaza. Numva ko mugihe nta wawe ufite uhoraho washaka ukumara ibibazo aho kwinyaza.

bangambiki:ariko ibyo dukora byose tugomba gucungana nuko hanze aha hari cya cyorezo!

4.MBESE UMUGABO USIRAMUYE ASHOBORA KUNYAZA?

SEKUTURE
Mbese umugabo usiramuye ashobora kunyaza,ikindi wabwirwa ni iki ko umugore aragije?

IGISUBIZO

Bangambiki:
SEKUTURE umugabo usiramuye aranyaza ivumbi rigatumuka!Iyo umgore arangije arisimbiza cyane akakwiyegereza ariko iyo ntacyo muhishanya akubwira ko arangije ushobora no kumubaza kugira ngo urusheho kumushimisha.

5.MBESE UMUNTU ASHOBORA KUNYAZA UMUKOBWA VIERGE?

ben: umuntu ashobora kunyaza umukobwa wari VIERGE?

ben: uzansubize niba umuntu uswewe bwa mbere ako kanya yanyara niyo yaba yarakunnye,umbwire ,n’ubwa kangahe (ni ku nshuro ya kangahe yanyara mubikoze),nkeneye kubimenya

IGISUBIZO

Mwami: Ben, gukuna ntibivuze kunyara, kandi kunyara ntibivuze ko ugomba kuba warakunnye, gusa biruzuzanya.Ntibigira kandi igihe runaka, ni process kandi biba mu bihe bitandukanye bitewe n’imitere ya buri muntu. Ku bakobwa rero bakiri vierge(isugi), yenda ububobere bwabo buratandukanye, bamwe bafite bwinshi, abandi nta namba, ariko kunyara kwabo hagire utwunganira, njye ntawe ndumva

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IBIBAZO KU KADOMO KA GRAFENBERG

IBIBAZO KU KADOMO KA GRAFENBERG

1.NI GUTE NASWERA UMUGORE AGASOHORA NKORESHEJE AKADOMO KA G

Mubanze mukore imirimo mbanziriza bitsina abanze ashake guhuza igitsina cyane, murongorane namara kuryoherwa cyane ushyire urutoki musumbazose mu gituba cye ahagana hejuru hafi y’umwinjiriro ku kadomo uhakarese cyane. Ni byiza ko mubanza kubiganiraho kugira ngo mufashanye kuhavumbura kandi agufashe gushimishwa naho na bwoba. Aramutse atarangije nta kibazo mwakoresha ubundi buryo nka rugongo ariko niyo umuntu adahise abishobora hari icyo aba yize.

2.AKADOMO KA G GAHEREREYE HE?

SEKUTURE ‘Wasobanurira aho akadomo ka G gaherereye

IGISUBIZO

Akadomo ka G ni ahantu mu gituba havumbuwe ni umushakashatsi mu miterere y’ibitsina witwa GRAFENBERG. Aho hantu mu gituba haherereye ku ruhande rwo hejuru kuri nibura 1/4 cyangwa 1/3 imbere mu gituba uturutse ku mwinjiriro(nibura cm6). Aho hantu iyo imboro ihakoze umugore araryoherwa cyane ku buryo ashobora gusohora. Nubwo abaganga icyo gice batakivugaho rumwe birazwi ko abagore benshi hari igice bagira imbere mu gituba bakorwaho bakumva uburyohe bwinshi.

GUSWERA UKAGERA KU KADOMO KA G N’IMBORO-GATERNELSON

Umusomyi Emmanuel yashimishijwe n’inyigisho za Gaternelson ku kadomo ka G ariko ikibazo afite ngo nuko kagerwaho n’intoki, umuhanga wacu Gatarayiha Nelson a.k.a Gaternelson aramusubiza muri aya magambo

Gaterneson-Muraho Nshuti bene Data, nejejwe na message ya Emmanuel, iriya nyandiko nacishijeho, impamvu nanditse ko ukoresha intoki ni iyi: igihe cya mbere cyo gushakisha kariya kadomu ka G ( G-SPOT ) nibwo ukoresha intoki, nyuma rero yo kuhamenya umugabo ashobora gukoresha imboro kugira ngo ajye abashkunezeza umugore neza. Emmanuel kugira ngo ugere neza kuri G-SPOT mu gihe urimo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina wabanza ugakoresha bwa buryo bwo kumenya aho iherereye noneho ugakora Doggy style( kumwenda uturutse inyuma
mbese bimwe bita guhenesha

Emmanuel yaranyuzwe ati”Gaternelson ibisobanuro birambuye ndabibonye kandi byanyuze ubwo hasigaye pratique kandi ndabashimira ubushakashatsi mukora ku igituba mukabutugezaho”

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    IBIBAZO KU GUSWERA

    IBIBAZO KU GUSWERA

    1.MBESE IYO UMUKOBWA ASHYUTSWE YUMVA AMEREWE ATE

    Iyo umukobwa ashyutswe amabere arakomera, imoko zikirega. Igituba kirabobera, kigatangira gutumbiramo imbere ibyo bigaherekezwa no gutereramo imbere kumeze nk’uko imboro itera iyo yashyutswe. Rugongo yari nto mbere yo gushyukwa iratumba ikaba nini kandi igakomera. Muri rusange usanga uwo mukobwa yahinduye n’indoro, usanga yahonze rwose kandi agatangira guhumeka vuba.

    2.KUKI UMUKOPINE WANJYE YANYIMYE IGITUBA?

    Jestoo5
    Mungira inama mfite umukopine dukundana njya ngerageza kumusaba ko dukora imibonano akanga none nzabigenzente?ntegereje inama zanyu.

    IGISUBIZO

    simba
    Jestoo 5 kuryamana ntabwo aribyo byerekana urukundo wari ukwiye kwihangana kugeza igihe muzarushinga kandi nanakwemerera ntuzibagirwe agakingirizo!

    3.IYO UMUGABO ASWERA UMUGORE NI NDE WUMVA UBURYOHE BWINSHI?

    koffi
    ese iyo umugabo aswera umugore ninde wumva uburyohe bwinshi?

    IGISUBIZO

    1.KAMANZI
    Uswerwa niwe uryoherwa sha nturabikora harya? waracitswe!

    2.Bangambiki:
    KOFFI iyo umugabo arimo guswera umugore bose bagombye kuryoherwa ndetse umugore akaryoherwa cyane, nyamara kuko abagabo benshi baswera nabi baryoherwa bonyine akenshi
    Niba ushaka guhaza umugore wawe soma hano kandi niba ushaka kumenya uko batanga igituba soma hano.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Uburyo Butandukanye bwo Guswera

    2.Dore Uko Banyaza!

    3.Haza Umugore Wawe Uyu Munsi!

    4.Dore Uko Batanga Igituba!

    4.NI GUTE NASHIMISHA UMUGORE MUSWEYE AGARAMYE?

    mufupi
    nongere nti “nimumbwire niba umugore agaramye aho wagerageza gukoza igitsina cyawe muri we ngo yumve yishimye atari uko anyajwe gusa!ese imyanya iryoherwa y’umugore ni iyihe?ni gute naswera umugore agaramye akaryoherwa?

    IGISUBIZO

    Bangambiki:
    MUFUPI umugore aryoherwa muri cm za mbere zibanza z’igituba, ahaganamo imbere cyane ntiharyoha cyane, jya umucumita ahagana mu mwinjiriro unazengurutse imboro mu mwinjiriro.

    5.KUKI NASWERA MU KANWA IGITUBA KIBA CYAGIYE HE?

    cuga
    Ndashaka kubaza impamvu umuntu agomba guswera mu kanwa igituba cyiba cyagiye he?

    IGISUBIZO

    Bangambiki:
    CUGA Guswera mu Kanwa ni uburyo umugore yonkamo imboro yawe.Nabyo biraryoha kubabikunda.Igituba kiba gihari ariko ni diversification y’igitsina.

    INKURU BISA

    Guswera mu Kanwa

    6.IKIBAZO

    cuga
    ni gute wategura umugore wawe kuburyo ujya kumuswera yagukunze cyane kubyo ibyo uri bumusabe gukora byose abikora atabanje kubyibaza.

    IGISUBIZO

    CUGA kugira ngo umugore akwimariremo agomba kuba akwizeye 100% naho ubundi muracengana. Ubu ndi soma iyi nkuru yitwa Guswera ni iki?

    WABWIRWA N’IKI KO UMUGABO YARANGIJE

    Umusomyi w’imena ukunze no gufasha abandi basomyi ba blog Igituba, beby1 yatugejejeho ikibazo abaza uburyo umugore yamenya niba umugabo yasohoye. OK, akenshi ntibyoroha rwose kumenya niba umugabo yarangije keretse bibaye mu gihe special. Hari igihe umugabo arangiza umugore ntabimenye akamubaza ati”mbese warangije”. Ibyo akenshi biba ku bagabo bazi guswera. Umugabo uzi guswera bishobora kukugora kumenya niba yarangije. Kubera iki?Umugabo uzi guswera iyo arimo guswera aba agamije gushimisha umugore cyangwa umukunzi we. Abaswera rero bagamije gusohora ntibyakugora rwose kumenya ko yasohoye. Kuko uratega akakwicundaguraho wajya kumva ukumva akwinjiyemo cyane arakugundiriye ubundi akagwa agaramye nkaho umugiriye nabi!!

    Umugabo uzi guswera aswera yicungira ko atarangiza mbere y’umugore kuko biramubabaza iyo arangije adahagije umugore. Uwo ni we mugabo. Umugabo ni ugira akamaro. Bityo rero akenshi ashyushya umugore, kugeza barangirije kimwe, maze umugore kuko yishimye cyane, ntanamenye niba umugabo yasohoye. Bagabo rero nusohora umugore ntabimenye uzamenye ko uri umuproffessionel mu guswera uzaze kuri blog igituba tuguhe certificat isinyweho na Dr Bangambiki.

    Turangiza twavuga kandi ko niba nta kibazo ufitanye n’umugabo nta mpamvu ufite yo gukeka ko atasohoye. Kuko birashoboka ko umugabo ushobora kumuha nabi akarakara akayikuramo mu kinyabupfura atarangije…Ijambo ribi rikura imboro mu gituba! Hari abagore utangira kuyinjizamo akakuzanira iby’inkundo zawe na ba Mariya na Clemence imyaka itanu ishize, umva ngo abagabo bakunda igituba, iyo bimeze gutyo abenshi barazinukwa. Urumve birenge ni wowe ubwirwa.

    WABWIRWA N’IKI KO UMUKOBWA CYANGWA UMUGORE ARIMO GUSOHORA

    DOULE: wabwirwa ni iki ko umugore cg umukobwa arimo gusohora?

    Real: Doule, ikikubwira ko umukobwa cg umugore arimo gusohora nuko ubona asa nutaye ubwenge uko mujyana aho wishakiye yajya kurangiza ukumva aragufashe cyane akagukomeza ntubashe kumwikura, akiruhutsa.

    KWIBA UMUGONO
    par Bangambiki

    Guswera umukobwa cyangwa umugore umwibye igituba asinziriye. Kwiba umugono ntibyoroshye ugomba kumenya neza ko uwo wiba umugono asinziriye neza! Uwiba umugono aba afite icyoba cyo gufatwa bityo iyo agize amahirwe imboro ye igakora ku gituba ahita arangiza. Biterwa nuko iyo yiba igituba aba akifuza cyane kandi amaranye umushyukwe igihe kinini ategereje ko uwo yiba umugono asinzira.

    INKURU BISA

    Kuki Igituba cy’Ikibano Kiryoha?

    Urakoze gusoma iyi nkuru kuri Igituba.org, shyiraho igitekerezo cyawe, twungure inama, tubwire uko ubona iby’igitsina na experiences zawe, tubaze cyangwa utwoherereze inkuru n’amafoto ku igitsina kuri bangambiki@igituba.org cyangwa bangambiki@bangambiki.com. Ohereza umwirondoro tugushakire inshuti ku IgihozoH.Bangambiki

    IBIBAZO BY’IGITSINA N’ABABYEYI

    IBIBAZO BY’IGITSINA N’ABABYEYI

    NJYA NUMVA PAPA YENDA MAMA

    Njye na murumuna wanjye turara mu kindi cyumba na ba papa mu kindi cyumba, ariko harimo idirishya rinini rimwe batajya bafunga. Iyo tumaze kuryama hashira akanya batekereza ko twasinziriye nkumva bigiriye mu byabo ntarasinzira, mama agatangira akaniha cyane, bakabwirana ukuntu biryoshye,nkumva ndashyutswe cyane, nkumva nanjye nasimbukirayo none nsigaye nkora uko nshoboye ngo papa abone ko nanjye ndi inkumi!

    Bangambiki:Iyo ni imwe mu mpamvu ishobora gutuma umukobwa yendwa na se. Ndumva umaze gukura, ushobora kwanga rwose kurara hafi yabo bakagushakira ahandi higiyeyo, gusa na none ikibazo cy’amikoro kibifitemo uruhare. Ariko kubumva ni bibi ku buzima bwawe.

    PAPA ANKORA MU IGITUBA

    Njye mbana na papa gusa mama ari mu mahanga ariko papa buri gihe arankubita kuko iyo aje anjyana muri douche akamanura ikariso yanjye agakoza urutoki mu gituba cyanjye akarunyereka hariho utuntu tumeze nka fromage maze akankubita urushyi, akagenda; nta muhungu nsambana nawe mbigire nte?
    Hari nubwo aza agasaka mu gikapu yanjye mvuye ku ishuri yasangamo udupapuro akadusoma akimyoza akagenda kandi azana umukobwa mwene wabo na mama ninjoro bagakinga icyumba nkegera urugi nkumva ari gutaka none mbigire nte?

    Bangambiki: Jya ubyirengagiza. Ariko ibyo kugukora mu gituba byo ni ibyo kwitonderwa. Uzamubwire ko utabishaka ko niba akeka ko hari ikibazo azagutware kwa muganga. Iby’umwanda bishobora kuba ari urwitwazo rwo kugukora mu igituba kandi kuko mama wawe adahari bishobora kumufasha kurangiza ibibazo bye. Abana benshi b’abakobwa bakunze guhohoterwa na ba se n’abandi bantu b’igitsina gabo bo mu muryango. Ugomba kwitonda kandi ukagira ikinyabupfura kuko ari so ariko ukamubwira icyo utekereza.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Guhuza Igitsina n’Uwo Muhuje Amaraso

    2.Guhuza Igitsina n’Uwo Muhuje Amaraso I

    3.Guhuza Igitsina n’Uwo Muhuje Amaraso II

    4.Guhuza Igitsina n’Uwo Muhuje Amaraso III

    PAPA ARASAMBANA AKANYICISHA IZUBA

    Njye buri gihe papa ansiga mu modoka akajya mu nzu y’umugore utuye mu yindi quartier izuba rikanyica akangeza mu rugo nashonje kandi yaza akagenda antuka ngo ndi umuswa nzabibwire mama?

    Bangambiki:uzabwire so areke guhemukira nyoko. Ibyo ari byo byose uri mukuru kuba ubibona no kubaza kino kibazo, ndumva ufite bimwe mu bisubizo kuri cyo, gusa ugomba kubigendamo neza kuko ushobora guteranya ababyeyi-bari basanzwe batizerana birumvikana.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Kuki Igituba cy’Ikibano Kiryoha?

    2.Guswera Indayi

    Urakoze gusoma iyi nkuru kuri Igituba.org, shyiraho igitekerezo cyawe, twungure inama, tubwire uko ubona iby’igitsina na experiences zawe, tubaze cyangwa utwoherereze inkuru n’amafoto ku igitsina kuri bangambiki@igituba.org cyangwa bangambiki@bangambiki.com. Ohereza umwirondoro tugushakire inshuti ku IgihozoH.Bangambiki

    IBIBAZO BY’IGITSINA ABAKOBWA BAHURA NABYO III-IGITSINA MBERE YO GUSHAKA I

    IBIBAZO BY’IGITSINA ABAKOBWA BAHURA NABYO III-IGITSINA MBERE YO GUSHAKA I

    MPUZA IGITSINA NA PATRO-NTA AGAKINGIRIZO!

    Njye mfite impungenge ko mabuja namenya ko umugabo we ajya answera azanyica kandi buri gihe iyo mabuja ansize ku kazi ku iduka umugabo we araza akamfata akanjyana muri store ngo ni ugukora controle y’ibicuruzwa akanjyaho ndetse ntakoreshe agakingirizo aramutse anteye inda najyahe koko, ubu se nzabibwire umugore we?

    Bangambiki: Wibagiwe ko yagutera na Sida. Aho iyo arimo kukwenda ntugira uti”komereza aho wa kayenzi we.” Uzabyumva ushaje.

    MUKURU WANJYE AKUNDA IMBORO CYANEE!

    Hari umuhungu ujya aza agatwara mukuru wanjye akadusiga ku ishuri amasaha ya ku manywa namubaza akambwira ngo ntakibazo ariko mfite impungenge ko ashobora kuzamutera inda.
    Byaba ari amahano kandi aririmba muri choral y’ikanisa mbigire nte ko atumva?
    Na bagenzi be baririmbana bajya babimbaza nkamwara.

    Bangambiki:Uzamusengere, ubibwire abayobozi b’itorero, mumuhane mu rukundo, akore ibikwiriye kugira ngo ataba rebel akabasuzugura.

    MWARIMU ANSABA IGITUBA NGO AMPE AMANOTA

    Njye mwarimu buri gihe akunda kumpamagara akansigaza inyuma akambwira ngo azampa amanota menshi nimuha igituba kandi mfite ubwoba ko nzatsindwa nintamuha igituba kuko ubushize naratsinzwe kandi bavugako abandi bana bajya bamuha igituba bagatsinda mbigire nte koko?
    Mfite ubwoba kuko bavuze ko umugore we yishwe n’agakoko ka sida? Kandi ngo ntakunda GAPOTI( agakingirizo)?

    Bangambiki:Ari amanota ari sida uhisemo iki?
    Nyamara ariko ikibazo cyawe nticyoroshye. Ariko naguhitiramo amagara.

    NDI UMUKOBWA, MBESE NSWERANYE NYUMA NKABIREKA IGIHE KININI NONGEYE KUBIKORA BAZAMENYA KO NARI NARABIKOZE

    Nema: ufite icyo yaba azi ku ku kibazo cyanjye nansubize.Please!Umukobwa akoze imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umuhungu inshuro zirenze 5,nyuma akaza kubihagarika mu gihe cya 1an kuzamura.Uwo bakongera gukorana imibonano yazabimenya?Ahubwo se igitsina cy’uwo mukobwa cyiba cyarongeye kwegerana nkuko byari bisanzwe?

    IGISUBIZO1

    Gaternelson: Muraho nshuti nziza!!!!mfite igisubizo cya Nema: umukobwa wese yitwa ko atakiri isugi igihe agahu gato cyane kaba ku mwinjiro w’igituba ( hymen ) kavuyeho bitewe na RS cg se n’ikindi kintu, ubwo rero iyo kavuyeho niyo wagira gute ntigashobora gusubiraho n’iyo wamara igihe kinini udaswerana, Njyewe ndi muganga, nabonye un cas yakoze Rs à 22 ans yongera à 33 ans mais umugabo yinjiye neza rwose, merci

    IGSUBIZO1

    Mwami: Nibaza impamvu gutakaza ubusugi bihangayikisha benshi, kandi bitavuze ko umuntu wese wabutakaje aba yakoze Rs. Numva rero bashiki bacu bidakwiye kubatera impunjyenjye, na none kandi bitewe na vision turimo ubusugi ntacyo bikivuze cyane nko mu bihe byo hambere

    IBIBAZO BY’IGITSINA ABAKOBWA BAHURA NABYO III-IGITSINA MBERE YO GUSHAKA II

    1.NKUNZE KWAMBARA AMAJIPO MAGUFI. NDI INZOBE KANDI MFITE INTEGE NZIZA, IYO NTAMBUTSE ABAHUNGU BARANDABUKWA. Ariko mfite ubwoba ko nazafatwa ku ngufu.

    IGISUBIZO: Urabyivugiye.Urwishigishiye ararusoma.

    INKURU BISA

    Guswera Indayi

    Kuki Igituba cy’Ikibano Kiryoha?

    Igitsina n’Inzoga

    2.UMUSHOFERI WA PAPA ARANSWERA

    Ariko njye iyo turi mu biruhuko umushoferi wa Daddy aranswera nkumva ntashaka kugaruka ku ishuri.

    Bangambiki:Yarakuraruye. Birumvikana ko imisemburo y’inkumi iba iri hejuru cyane kandi aba atekereza cyane ku gitsina. Ariko ugomba kwitonda ukagikora mu mutekano ushoboka kandi ntibikwicire imirimo nko kwiga. Nta cyiza cyaruta kwiga utegura ejo hazaza. Ikndi kandi ni byiza rwose kwifata ukirinda guhuza igitsina ukiri muto kuko guhuza igitsina n’abantu bakuze atari byiza- bashobora kukurarura. Ugomba kwiga kwirinda gusama no gukoresha agakingirizo.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Agakingirizo k’Abagore

    2.Uko Bakoresha Agakingirizo

    3.Kwirinda Gusama1

    4.Kwifata

    5.Kwirinda Gusama2

    3.UYU MUGABO AMPA LIFT ASHAKA IGITUBA CYANJYE!

    Buri gihe iyo ntashye mva ku ishuri hari umugabo ujya umpa lift akangeza hepfo y’iwacu ariko intoki ze tuza ziri mw’ijipo yanjye agashyira intoki mu ikariso yanjye akazikoreshamo nkumva ikariso yanjye iratose kandi iyo nanze ararakara hari icyo bizantwara?
    Kandi nta mafaranga ya transporo mfite mba naramukwepye ntantware.

    Bangambiki:Abagabo benshi bakunze kubonerana ubukene bw’abakobwa n’abagore ngo babavanemo inyungu z’igituba. Jya ureba impamvu umuntu arimo kukwitaho, niba ari urukundo cyangwa niba yishakira igitsina gusa. Jya wirinda abishakira igitsina gusa kuko nta mutima bagira. Bashobora kugutera Sida cyangwa izindi Indwara z’Ibitsina kandi ntibakwiteho mu bibazo byawe. Ibyiza ni ukubabaraho igihe gito aho kwishyira mu maboko y’umuntu ugamije kukonona.

    Urakoze gusoma iyi nkuru kuri Igituba.org, shyiraho igitekerezo cyawe, twungure inama, tubwire uko ubona iby’igitsina na experiences zawe, tubaze cyangwa utwoherereze inkuru n’amafoto ku igitsina kuri bangambiki@igituba.org cyangwa bangambiki@bangambiki.com. Ohereza umwirondoro tugushakire inshuti ku IgihozoH.Bangambiki

    IBIBAZO BY’IGITSINA ABAHUNGU BAHURA NA BYO I

    IBIBAZO BY’IGITSINA ABAHUNGU BAHURA NA BYO I

    1.INAMA ZA MWAMI ALIAS MUGABE DAVID

    Sawa rero mugire w.end nziza, ariko inzoga nyinshi no guswera birazirana. bituma umuntu atirinda SIDA. Mwitonde !!

    INKURU BISA

    Indwara ya Sida

    Indwara z’Ibitsina

    Inzoga ni Nzobya-Bangambiki

    2.NI GUTE NAKWIRINDA KWIKINISHA

    kelly
    yes Bangambiki umva ndashaka ko wambwira ukuntu nakwirinda ponyoto(kwikinisha)

    IGISUBIZO

    simba
    kwikinisha ifite ingaruka kuko ntabwo wazajya wishimira guswera cg guswerwa niba uri umukobwa bikaba byahungabanye imibanire yawe nuwo mwashakanye cg mugirana imibonano. Kuva rero ushaka kuyireka ugomba kwirinda situation ituma ushaka kuyikora ntabwo byoroshye inama ya mbere ni ukugabanya inshuro uyikora tuvuge mu kwezi ukagenda ugabanya gahoro gahoro. Ikindi nakubwira ibyiza nuko wakora PONYOTO kuruta uko wakwishora mu busambanyi bwazagukururira kabutindi

    INKURU BISA

    Kwikinisha

    Uko Nafashwe Nikinisha

    Gutekereza no Kwikinisha

    3.KUKI BURI GIHE MBA NSHAKA KWIKINISHA?

    Njyewe kuki mba numva nshaka gutinura(kwitina,gutinanga,kwikinisha) buri gihe iyo ndi muri douche no muri toilet?

    Bangambiki:Iyo wigeze kwikinisha ho akenshi iyo urebye imboro yawe cyangwa igituba cyawe wiherereye kandi udaheruka gusohora cyangwa uheruka gusohora wumva ushaka kwikorakora no kwikinisha. Akenshi umuntu ujya wikinisha iyo ari wenyine yumva ashaka kubikora. Uramutse udashaka kwikinisha wakwirinda gutinda ahantu nk’aho habikwibutsa. Usibye ko kwikinisha nta kibazo bitera keretse ahari kurenza urugero no kumva bikumwaje.Soma inkuru zirambuye ku kwikinisha hano.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Isomo ryo Kwikinisha ku Bagore n’Abakobwa

    2.Kwiknisha:Gushimishwa n’Igitsina Ntawe Mufatanyije!

    3.Ibitekerezo ku Kwikinisha

    4.Mbese Kwikinisha Birababaza?

    4.KUKI HARI ABANTU BASOHORA VUBA ABANDI BAGATINDA

    SEKUTURE ‘Kuki hari abasohora vuba nabatinda agusohora haba ibanga muri ibyo bintu twese nduhuriraho?

    Bangambiki:SEKU, abantu bamwe basohora vuba abandi bagatinda gusohora abandi ntibasohore. Biterwa n’umuntu. Kwihuta gusohora si byiza kuko bituma udashimisha umukunzi wawe kandi biterwa n’ibintu byinshi ushobora gusanga mu hano. Gutinda gusohora no kudasohora nabyo wabibonera igisubizo kuri hano.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Ndaswera Ariko Sinsohora

    2.Kuki Nsohora Vuba?

    3.Gusohora kw’Abagabo

    4.Gusohora kw’Abagore

    5.Kuki Abagore Batinda Gusohora?

    6.Ndaswera Ariko Sinsohora

    5.KUKI NTEKEREZA GUSWERANA N’UMUKUNZI

    Bangambiki: Nta gitangaza kirimo. Iyo umuntu akunda undi ashobora kurota bahuza igitsina cyangwa akirirwa amwifuza.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Urukundo ni iki?

    2.Amoko 5 y’Urukundo

    3.Urukundo-Amayobera 6 y’Urukundo

    4.Kurambagiza no Guhuza Ibitsina

    6.KUKI NTEKEREZA UMUKUNZI UMUTIMA UKADIHA

    Kuki iyo ntekereje Clementine numva umutima udishye cyane nkagira ubwoba yaba se yarandoze?

    Bangambiki:Oya ntiyakuroze. Ahubwo mushobora kuba mukundana cyane. Abantu benshi bibabaho. Keretse niba uzi ko mudakundana, nibwo wakwibaza ibindi.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Urukundo ni iki?

    7.MFITE IMBORO NTOYA

    WILLY
    MFITE IMBORO NTOYA ARIKO IYO IFASHE UMUREGO IBA NINI NONESE UBWO SIMFITE IKIBAZO ?NKENEYE INAMA ZANYU

    IGISUBIZO

    simba
    Willy rwose humura guswera ni mu mutwe ibya size(ubunini cg ubuto) ntaho bihuriye ariko se ubundi iyo itashyutswe iba ireshya ite? Naho se iyo yashyutswe?

    Bangambiki:
    uti”iyo nshyutswe iba nini.”Uri muzima rwose ubunini bw’imboro ni ikibazo kiba mu mutwe ahanini kandi iyo ukitayeho kiraguhungabanya. Guswera kandi si imboro nini.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Ntukeneye Imboro y’Indengakamere

    2.Mbese Nakongera Ubunini bw’Imboro y’Imboro Yanjye?

    3.Mbese Imboro Nini Nibwo Bugabo?

    4.Mfite Akaboro Gato

    8.UMUGORE ASOHORA AMASOHORO AMEZE ATE

    DOGE arabaza”umukobwa nawe asohora amasohoro amaze nkanyumugabo cg kunyara niko gusoha”

    IGISUBIZO:Umugore ntasohora amasohora, isohora ibintu bimeze nk’amazi yo mu bwoko bw’inkari. Ntabwo asohora amasohora tuzi nk’ay’abagabo

    Urakoze gusoma iyi nkuru kuri Igituba.org, shyiraho igitekerezo cyawe, twungure inama, tubwire uko ubona iby’igitsina na experiences zawe, tubaze cyangwa utwoherereze inkuru n’amafoto ku igitsina kuri bangambiki@igituba.org cyangwa bangambiki@bangambiki.com. Ohereza umwirondoro tugushakire inshuti ku IgihozoH.Bangambiki

    IBIBAZO BY’IGITSINA ABAHUNGU BAHURA NA BYO II

    IBIBAZO BY’IGITSINA ABAHUNGU BAHURA NA BYO II

    1.NDAPFUYE KANDI NZIZE UMUSHYUKWE!

    Ndapfuye kandi nzize umushyukwe, nabuze umukobwa wo guswera; uwo nsabye wese anyima igituba n’uw’inshuti yanjye yarakinyimye. Koko nzabigenze nte abandi ko babaha?

    Bangambiki: Nta mupfu w’imboro. Umukobwa wo guswera ntawe ushobora kubona. Hariho umukobwa wo gukunda. Abakobwa bo guswera ni indayi. Ushobora kugenda ukishyura ugaswera. Umukobwa wo guswera ntawe uzabona, hariho umukobwa wo gukunda, umukobwa utekereza ko umwitayeho, umukobwa ubona ko utamubonamo igituba gusa. Uwo ni we bizatinda akaguha. Niba rero ushyira imboro yawe imbere gusa ukirebera igituba gusa, inzu y’indayi ni yo yakurangiriza ibibazo. Uti “Abandi barabaha.”Barabaha nyine. Bazi gutereta, kwihangana no kwereka umukobwa ko nta gituba bashaka nubwo baba babikeneye cyane. Bakunda umukobwa bakamwitaho kugeza ubwo umukobwa yumva ubwe yifuje guhuza igitsina nabo, bamukoraho bikaba korosora uwabyukaga. Nta igituba cy’ubusa kibaho. Ugomba kumenya uburyo bakibonamo!

    INKURU BISA

    1.Kuki Igituba cy’Ikibano Kiryoha?

    2.Guswera Indayi

    3.Intambwe 10 Zo Kureshya Umukobwa cyangwa Umugore

    4.Uko Umugore Areshya Umugabo

    2.NDI UMUHUNGU-UMUYAYA WACU ARANYIRONGOZA

    Njyewe umuyaya wacu buri gihe iyo abonye ba papa bamaze kuryama aza mu cyumba cyanjye yimanikisha imyenda aririmba maze akiryamisha iruhande rwanjye akazimya itara noneho agakora ku mboro yanjye nkumva ndashyutswe hanyuma akanjya hejuru akanyijombaho igituba akansiga ibizi byinshi by’ibinyare yarangiza akampanagura akagenda akampa imbuto n’amafranga yo kugura amandazi ku ishuri. Yambujije kubibwira mama nzabigirente?

    Bangambiki:Ndatekereza ko iyo akwijombyeho wumva biryoshye ahari ukaba ujya uvuga uti”Komerezaho wa kayenzi we.”Naho ubundi sinumva impamvu utabibwira nyoko akaba yamwihanangiriza , akamwirukana cyangwa mukajya mufunga icyumba ntabone uko yinjira. Wari uzi ko ashobora kugutera Indwara z’Ibitsina zidafite icyo zimutwaye ariko zishobora kukugirira nabi. Ntibyemerewe abana guhuza ibitsina. Ni iby’abantu bakuru bazi ibyo barimo.

    INKURU BISA

    Indwara z’Ibitsina

    Izindi Ndwara z’Ibitsina

    3.NKUNDA GUSOMA,KUREBA NO GUKORA IMIBONANO MPUZABITSINA AHO SINZATWARWA NA BYO?

    CUGA ‘nkunda gusoma, kureba cg gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina none mfite ubwoba ko ndi obscedé muri ibyo bintu mwangira inama ki? ‘

    IGISUBIZO

    Kuba ubikunda nta gitangaza kirimo nta n’ikibazo biteye ntekereza ko ari kamere muntu. Iyo umuntu akiri umusore imisemburo ari myinshi mu mubiri we ni ko bigenda.Yumva igitsina cyaramusajije. Ni byiza ko ubizi ujye “wikontrola” ntukore “degat”.Ariko ndatekereza ko uri muzima,gusa niba urara ukanuye bukagukeraho utekereza igituba cyangwa ukaba udashobora gukora imirimo ushinzwe kubera igitsina ni bwo byaba ari ikibazo aho nakugira inama yo kwegera muganga.

    4.SOBANURA IMITERERE Y’ABAFITE UTUNUNGU DUTO

    Ni henshi twavuze ko guswera atari imboro nini. Uri n’umuhanga rwose ushobora no kudakenera imboro ngo uhaze umugore.

    Iyo ufite akanungu (akaboro) gato ugomba kwirinda kumva ko imboro yawe yonyine ari yo iguhagiriza umukunzi kuko nyine kuba ari nto hari ibyo itageraho. Ugomba kwifashisha uburyo bwose bwatuma ushimisha umukunzi wawe. Ugomba kumushyukwisha kandi ukamufasha kurangiza bitamugoye. Ushobora gukoresha intoki ukora kuri rugongo imaze gushyukwa, ushobora gukoresha ururimi urigata rugongo n’umwinjiriro w’igituba. Mu gukoresha imboro yawe ushobora kwirinda gucumita cyane ahubwo ukibanda kuyikubita kuri rugongo ku buryo umunyaza.

    INKURU BISA

    1.Ntukeneye Imboro y’Indengakamere

    2.Mbese Nakongera Ubunini bw’Imboro y’Imboro Yanjye?

    3.Mbese Imboro Nini Nibwo Bugabo?

    4.Mbese Abagore Bakunda Umugabo Ufite Imboro Nini?

    5.Mfite Imboro Nto Sinshobora Guhaza Umugore Wabyaye

    6.Ngo Abagore Bakunda Imboro Nini Ibyibushye Kuruta Indende

    7.Mbese Guhuza Igitsina Biba Birangiye Iyo Umugabo Arangije?

    8.Mfite Imboro y’Indengakamere

    9.Imboro

    10.Mfite Akaboro Gato

    11.Gupima Imboro

    12.Haza Umugore Wawe Uyu Munsi!

    5.UMUGENI WANJYE ARARWAYE MBESE TWABANA?

    poku
    mfite fiancée wanjye tumaranye 3 ans none twagiye kwipimisha basanga la fille ararwaye njye ndi muzima,mbigenze nte?umukobwa ari kumbwira ngo noye kumwambika abantu ngo tubane mais c’ est un risque,mungire inama

    IGISUBIZO

    Bangambiki:
    POKU urukundo ni rwiza ariko kuba mwabana arwaye ndumva ari ukwiyahura ureba kandi ibyo si urukundo. Gusa komeza umukunde kandi umwumvishe ko agomba gukomeza kwishimira kubaho no kunywa imiti.

    INKURU BISA

    Indwara z’Ibitsina

    6.NAKORA IKI NGO NDANGIZE NTINZE?

    théo
    ni iki wakora ngo urangize utinze iyo urimo guswera umukobwa kugirango ye ku gusuzugura?

    IGISUBIZO

    1.Bangambiki:
    TEO iyo uri hafi yo kurangiza wirinda gukomeza guswera cyane uburyohe bukagaruka inyuma bityo ugatinda kurangiza. Ariko bisaba imyitozo, abenshi babyiga bikinisha nubwo atari yo nama nkugiriye

    2.juma
    iyo udashaka gusohora ,ugomba kumva ko guswera ari ibintu bisanzwe,kd ugomba gukora kuburyo iyo wumvishe ugiye gusohora uyikuramo,

    3.BANGAMBIKI
    Hari uwambwiye ati”niba ushaka gutinda gusohora jya wibuka imyenda yose urimo abantu n’amatiku ujya ugirana n’umugore wawe!” Ariko iyi si inama nakugira kuko usibye gutinda gusohora ushobora no kudasohora na mba!

    INKURU BISA

    Kuki Nsohora Vuba?

    UBUREBURE BW’IMISHINO par Gaternelson

    DOGE: umukobwa wakunnye ufite imishino mirere ishobora kugera kuri cm zingahe?

    Gaternelson: amakuru yanyu, DOGE, ndagerageza kuguha igisubizo, ubundi umukobwa wakunnye cyane akagwiza akarusha abandi ntiwamenya neza uburebure nyakuri bw’imishino ye ariko bavuga ko uwarushije abandi yaragerageje agira
    imishino ireshya na cm 12 ni ukuvuga uburebure bw’urutoki rwa musumbazose, iyo mishino yitwa ” IMIJABURAMABYI”

    Urakoze gusoma iyi nkuru kuri Igituba.org, shyiraho igitekerezo cyawe, twungure inama, tubwire uko ubona iby’igitsina na experiences zawe, tubaze cyangwa utwoherereze inkuru n’amafoto ku igitsina kuri bangambiki@igituba.org cyangwa bangambiki@bangambiki.com. Ohereza umwirondoro tugushakire inshuti ku IgihozoH.Bangambiki

    INKORANYAMAGAMBO Y’IGITUBA

    Inkoranyamagambo y’igituba

    INKORANYAMAGAMBO Y’IGITUBA

    impagarike:ubuzima;

    koza imbunda:guswera

    gukomangira:guswera;

    rwagihuta:imboro;

    kumera ukuntu:kwiryohera n’icyana;

    gukanika:guswera;

    sebahungu:imboro;

    kwinikiza umugore:kumu…!

    nyirakamana-indaya

    igisate-igituba

    umwase-umugore

    icyana-umukobwa,inkumi

    igisyo-inkumi

    urukundo-“Uwavuga iby’urukundo
    Yamara icyumweru
    Atenze ho n’intango”-Rugamba

    gusambana-“…gucudika
    Mu ngeso zo gucumura”-Rugamba

    kunyaza-uburyo bwo guswera ukubita imboro kuri rugongo kugeza umugore anyaye.

    guswera-gushyira imboro mu gituba ugamije gushimishwa na byo

    guhaza-Guswera umugore akarangiza, agashimishwa n’imibonano mwagiranye. Guswera umugore agashira ipfa.Soma inkuru irambuye hano

    gupfubya-guswera umugore ukarangiza mbere ye ugahita urekeraho imibonano.

    kwiba umugono-guswera umukobwa cyangwa umugore umwibye igituba asinziriye. Kwiba umugono ntibyorohye ugomba kumenya neza ko uwo wiba umugono asinziriye neza! Uwiba umugono aba afite icyoba cyo gufatwa bityo iyo agize amahirwe imboro ye igakora ku gituba ahita arangiza. Biterwa nuko iyo yiba igituba aba akifuza cyane kandi amaranye umushyukwe igihe kinini ategereje ko uwo yiba umugono asinzira.

    kwifata-Ni uburyo bwo kwirinda guhuza igitsina mu buryo ubwo ari bwo bwose.Ubu buryo bwo kwifata ni bwo bwonyine burinda indwara zifatira mu myanya ndangabitsina nka Sida n’izindi ndetse no gusama.

    gushyukwisha:Gutera gushyukwa

    kuniha-gusohora urusaku werekana ko uryohewe.

    kwiriza- Uburyo umugore yiriza yerekana ko yishimiye umugabo.

    kugumirwa-Kubura umugabo.

    imihango y’umugore-Abagore bakunze kujya mu mihango bakigera mu bukumi.Hari abatangira kujya mu mihango y’abakobwa hakiri kare nko ku myaka 9 hari n’abakobwa batinda kubona imihango bakazayinjiramo bagejeje imyaka 16 cyangwa 17. Kujya mu mihango bisobanura ko umugore cyangwa umukobwa ashobora gusama, gutwara inda igi rye riramutse rihuye n’intanga y’umuhungu cyangwa umugabo(intanga cyangwa amasohoro)

    inzaratsi-Uburozi abagore baha abagabo kugira ngo bakore ibyo bashaka. Zimwe mu nzaratsi abagore bakoresha zishobora gukomeretsa abagabo cyangwa zikabica.

    kunyonga-ikibuno: Ni ukuntu abagore n’abakobwa bagenda binyonga bareshya abagabo.

    amabere-ibice by’umubiri w’umugore byo konsa umwana bikaba n’ akarango k’ubwiza. Mu mibonano mpuzagitsina amabere aratumba agakomera, kuyakorakora k’umugabo bituma aryoherwa n’igitsina kandi bigashimisha umugore

    umwari-Umukobwa.”Nguwo umwari w’ishya,
    Nguwo uw’ishyoro ryaka.” ,Rugamba Cyprien.”Umwari mwiza ntasamara
    Atega yombi abamubyaye
    Agatura atuje bitamugoye
    Akazarenga urwa Bayanga.”Bngambiki

    ubwiza-“Umusatsi wose ni umusana,
    Ni urugege ruzira ingingo
    Ni urugeregere rw’uburanga,
    Ni igisingizo cy’umudasumbwa.”

    Marebe Atembaho Amaribori Biragoye gusobanura ubwiza. Kuko biterwa n’amaso n’umutima y’ureba. Uwo ubona ko ari mwiza nshaobora kubona atanshimishije ariko muri rusange icyiza kiba kigaragara kandi abantu benshi bakacyumvikanaho ko ari cyiza. Ubwiza bukunze kuvugwa ku bagore cyane kuko ari zo mbaraga zabo. Niyo mpamvu abagore bamara amasaha menshi n’amafaranga biruka k’ubwiza.

    umusatsi-Ni utwoya tuba ku mutwe w’umuntu urinda izuba cyangwa imbeho. Mu rwego rw’igitsina ufite akamaro kanini. Umusatsi mwinshi muremure ni ishema ry’abagore n’abakobwa kandi ni akarango k’ubwiza karabura umugabo. Kunyuza intoki mu musatsi w’umugore mu gihe cyo guhuza ibitsina biryohera umugore n’umugabo. Nyamara ariko gufata neza umusatsi birahenda! Ni mu gihe agaciro kawo karakomeye.

    amaribori-Ni utuntu tumeze nk’ubusharure dukunze kuboneka mu ntege z’umukobwa cyangwa umugore.Ni akarango k’ubwiza,abagore barabikunda n’abagabo bakabishima. Ariko hari abavuga ko ari indwara y’uruhu.

    intege-Ni akarango k’ubwiza k’umugore. Abagore benshi bakunze kuzerekana.

    umugore-1.umuntu mukuru w’igitsina gore.Urugero:Uriya mugore ni mwiza;2. abantu bose b’igitsina gore.Urugero:Abagore baracyakandamijwe muri Afurika;3.umugabo w’ikigoryi.Urugero:Uyu nta mugabo urimo ni nk’umugore;4.Umufasha w’igitsina gore.Urugero:Kagorora afite umugore w’umutima.

    umukobwa-1.umwana w’igitsina gore.Urugero:Kwa Kanyambo baraye babyaye umwana w’umukobwa;2.igitsina gore cyose .Urugero”Ndi umukobwa w’abazigaba.”

    igituba-Umwanya ndangagitsina w’umugore.

    isugi-umukobwa utarahuza igitsina. Hymen(akabambano) ni cyo kimenyetso cy’umukobwa w’isugi mu muco. Ni agahu koroshye gashobora gucibwa n’imyitozo cyangwa ubwoko bw’amapamba abakobwa binjiza mu gituba ngo bifashe mu gihe cy’imihango. Kereka umukobwa yarasambanye, ubundi gucika hymen mu bundi buryo ntibyambura umukobwa ubusugi bwe.

    umushino-utunyama tuba mu gituba dukomoka kuri rugongo iyo umugore yakunnye akagwiza

    gukuna-Gukurura ku mpande za rugongo ushaka kugira imishino.

    igisate-izina ry’urwenya rivuga igituba,umukobwa cyangwa umugore.

    umwangavu-umukobwa utangiye gupfundura amabere.

    inkumi-Umukobwa mukuru ushobora gusabwaho umugeni.

    akanyogwe-umukobwa ukiri muto ariko ushobora guhuza igitsina. Bivugwa ku bakobwa bato bakiri amasugi. Aba bakobwa batwaye umutima abagabo benshi

    inshoreke-undi mugore wawe utari uwa mbere.

    gusama-gutwara inda.

    isugi-umukobwa utarahuza igitsina n’umugabo.

    gufata ku ngufu-guhuza igitsina n’umuntu yakweretse ko atabishaka. Si ngombwa ko aba yakomeretse, icyangombwa ni uko biba bigaragara ko nta burenganzira yaguhaye bwo kumwegerera igitsina. Bishobora no kwitwa ko wafashe umugore wawe ku ngufu igihe atakwemereye ko muhuza igitsina ukabimuhatira.

    ikizungerezi-umukobwa cyangwa umugore mwiza cyane. Bikunze kuvugwa ku bagore ushobora gusambanya ukabikuramo ingaruka mbi nk’indwara, gusesa amafaranga n’ibindi.

    agashino-umushino

    rugongo:
    Rugongo ni kimwe mu bice bigize igituba. Mu byerekeranye no guhuza ibitsina k’umugore no gushimishwa na byo rugongo iza ku mwanya wa mbere. Rugongo ni inkingi mu gushimishwa n’igitsina k’umugore kandi ni ngombwa ko ikinishwa kugira ngo umugore arangize bitamugoye.

    gutereka amaso-uburyo abakobwa n’abagore barebamo bareshya abagabo.

    kunyonga-kuzunguza mu manyungunyungu umugore akora iyo barimo kumuswera ngo aryohereze umugabo

    kunyara-1.Kwihagarika:gusohora inkari ziva mu ruhago;
    2 .gusohora ibinyare: umugore asohora ibinyare iyo arimo kunyazwa

    imigoma-iminwa y’igituba

    NYABABYEYIinda ya nyababyeyi ni igice umugore asamiramo , umwana akaba ariho akurira.

    umwinjiriro w’igituba-Aho igituba cyo hanze gitangirira ugana imbere

    insya-umusatsi umera ahagana hejuru y’imboro cyangwa Igituba

    inzonnyo-Ubwoya bumera mu nnyo. Nta Nzoga ya Nzonnyo.

    umukondo-Inkovu y’aho umwana aba afataniye na nyina akiri mu nda. Iyo hatakebwe neza inkovu ntimera neza ahubwa haza iromba.

    Gukora ku mukondo:Guhuza igitsina, guswera. Urugero:Ndifuza kugukora ku mukondo.
    Umukondo ni akarango k’ubwiza bw’abagore. Abagore cyangwa abakobwa biyubashye bakunze guhisha umukondo wabo mu gihe abakunda kurata ubwiza bwabo bawushyira ahagaragara. Mu guhuza igitsina umukondo ufite akamaro cyane kuko ari ipfundo ry’imyakura ngengagitsina. Gukorakora umugore ku mukondo bituma yumva uburyohe bwinshi.

    ururimi-Inyama yo mu kanwa idufasha kuvuga. Mu guhuza igitsina rufite akamaro kanini. Ni rwo abantu bakoresha mu gusomana mu kanwa, gusoma imboro mu igituba n’ahandi.

    gushyukwa-Kwinjirwa n’amaraso menshi mu mitsi y’imboro cyangwa igituba kubera ko utekereje ku gitsina. Umuntu ashobora no gushyukwa atatekereje ku gitsina nko ku bakiri bato.

    kurambagiza-ni uburyo bwo guhura n’inshuti nshya.
    Abashakanye bagomba kubanza kuba inshuti mbere y’uko baba abakunzi.

    umusambane-uwo usambana na we, yaba umugabo cyangwa umugore

    ikinyendaro-Umwana utaravukiye mu rugo rwemewe n’amategeko cyangwa umuco.

    imitezi-indwara z’ibitsina zose muri rusange. Ni ijambo rikomoka ku nyuguti 3 z’igifaransa(MTS=Maladie Transmisible Sexuellement)

    guterura-Kwiba umukobwa ukamugira umugore utubahirije imihango iteganywa n’umuco

    kwirega-Kujya kuvuga ko wateruye umukobwa kwa ba se.

    kwahukana-Kugaruka iwabo k’umugore bitewe n’ibibazo yagiranye n’umugabo. Uwahukanye hari ubwo aba azaguruka.

    gucyura-Kujya kugarura umugore wahukanye.Gushaka umugore wahoze ari uw’undi.

    gutandukana- Kurekera aho kubana k’umugabo n’umugore biturutse ku bibazo by’ingutu batumvikanaho, akenshi bishingiye k’ubusambanyi,umutungo,kuroga n’ibindi.

    umuranga-Ujya gusaba abanza kurangisha umugeni, yamara kumubona no kumushima imico n’ubwiza, cyangwa amushimiwe n’undi, agashaka umuranga. N’iyo asaba mu baturanyi ashaka umuranga; ni we umuvugira bagiye mu byo gusaba.

    impyiko-impyiko ziba hasi y’imbavu
    -akamaro kazo ni ako kuyungurura amaraso zikavanamo imyanda igasohoka mu buryo bw’inkari
    -igenera umubiri umunyu uwukwiriye n’ibindi
    -impyiko zikora umusemburo witwa ERYTHROPOIETIN utuma hakorwa cellule z’amaraso atukura mu musokoro w’amagufwa

    urethre-Ni utunyama dukoze nk’uduhombo
    -dutwara inkari tuzivana mu mpyiko tuzijyana mu ruhago aho zibikwa kugeza bibaye ngombwa ko zisohoka

    uruhago-ni igice cy’umubiri bureguka nk’iplastike
    -uruhago rugenda rwikwegura uko rwuzura inkari
    - hari inyama ebyiri zitwa “sphincter” ziba ku miyoboro itwara inkari ziyegeranya kugira ngo inkari zidatakara
    -“sphincter” iba imbere nticungwa n’umuntu ku giti cye
    -“sphincter” iri inyuma ushobora kuyicunga ubwawe.

    Iyo uruhago rwuzuye, ubwonko bwohereza ubutumwa kugira ngo “sphincter” y’imbere ifunguke.

    kwikinishaKwikorakora ku mboro cyangwa igituba ugamije gusohora uri wenyine.Dore uko abagore bikinisha.Ushobora gusoma birambuye ku kwikinisha hano

    gusayisha-Kuganira n’umuntu w’ikindi gitsina ibyerekeranye no guswerana ukazana urukonda mbaznzirizamasohoro cyangwa ukisohoreraho.

    agakingirizo Agakingirizo gatuma intanga z’umugabo zitinjira mu igituba cy’umugore kakaba nka barriere hagati y’igituba n’imboro.

    amabya-utubumbe tubiri turi mu isaho y’amabya. Mu mabya ni ho amasohoro akorerwa. Iyo akantu gakoze umugabo ku mabya birababaza.

    umwinjira-Umugabo usanga umugore mu rugo rwe akamubera umugabo

    igisetsampizi-igituba

    rwasubutare-umugore utanyara

    umujaburamabyi-umushino muremure cyane

    URWESO

    Ni IGITUBA gifite imiguno minini na rugongo ndende, ariko imishino y’urweso ikunze kuba migufi. Abagore bafite urweso bakunze kunyara cyane kandi ngo iyo basobye bakunze kwinyarira bigatuma bapfukaho kugira ngo zishokere hasi.

    URUBUNDANKARI

    Ni ubwoko bw’IGITUBAkinini gifite ipfupfu, ugifite uhita ukibona munsi y’uruhago. Icyo gituba giteye nk’idegede.

    Abagore bagifite baranyara cyane kandi kandi akenshi usanga bahora bishimye.

    UMUSHUBATI

    Ni
    IGITUBA giteye nk’ipapayi kiza imbere kandi kikagira uburebure.

    Umushubati ugira rugongo itukura cyane kandi imishino ikirabura n’imigoma ikaziga ubwirabure bukabije. Umugore ugifite iyo yambaye imyenda imufashe wagirango afite imboro!

    UMUSHOKANNYO

    Ni
    IGITUBA kirekire ariko kitagaragara imbere, abagore bagifite bakunda guswererwa inyuma kuko kiba kimeze nk’amabya y’ingurube, gikunze kuzana urukonda, kigira umushyukwe cyane.
    Umugore ufite igituba cy’ umushokannyo ntanyara cyane.

    INJUMA

    Ni ubwoko bw’agatuba gato, gafite ka rugongo gatoya, n’utugoma duto, n’udushino duto ndetse gakunze kuba kadakunnye.

    IGIKONO

    Igikono ni
    IGITUBA kitakunnye kandi gifite rugongo nini n’imishino migufi ubundi ugasanga ari ntayo. Gifite imigoma minini kandi gisanganya amayasha y’umukobwa cyangwa umugore.

    Abakobwa bagifite bakunda kubura abagabo kuko ntibakunda guswerwa kuko ahatuma baryoherwa hadahari (imishino).

    URUKAMBA

    Ni IGITUBA cyiza cyuzuye imbere, akenshi umugore ugifite ngo arakigendera ku buryo agerageza kukigaragaza. Iyo yambaye ikanzu kiyishushanyamo.

    Ugifite agenda yemye, akakiringana kuko abagabo bagikunda cyane akaba ariyo mpanvu imwe ituma abagore bambara amapantaro ababoshye ngo gikunde kishushanye ari igisate!

    AGATOMA

    Ni agatuba gatoya gafite ipfupfu, kagira
    rugongo irumbaraye, imishino migufi,karirabura ku migoma, iyo ukarebeye mu ikariso wagirango ni umucungwe.

    GUKEBWAGukuraho uruhu rupfundikira umunwa w’imboro
    URUHOSHO

    N’ubwoko bw’imborobukundwa n’abagore benshi babyaye, iteye nk’urubaho kandi ikaba ndende , imara abagore ipfa

    INDIGA

    N’akaboro kagufi kandi usanga n’utubya twako ari duto dusa nutwo bateyeho.

    IGIHASHI

    Ni ubwoko bwose bw’imboro zitarangiza.

    RWOGA

    Imboro bita Rwogamabando n’imboro ndende cyane hafi cm 20 kujyana hejuru ibyibushye kuva ku mabya ikagera ku gitini ihorose,ifite imitsi hose,kandi igira amabya anagana,zikunze kugirwa n’abagabo bahorose cyangwa b’inzingo uyifite iyo agiye k’umugore usanga nta wundi mugabo yakunda ngo imara ipfa iyo isohoye itinda gushyukwa.

    IMPARE

    N’imboro yasiramuwe ikiva mu nda ushobora kwibaza ko ariyo bakebye vuba. Ihorana umushyukwe

    AKARAGA

    Ni akaboro gafite nka cm 13 kugeza kuri 19cm kaba ari gato mu mubyimba abagore ntibagakunda ngo kabicisha umushyukwe.

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    Gushaka abagore benshi biracyakorwa henshi

    Kera mu muco nyarwanda byari byemewe gushaka abagore benshi. Umwami ubwe n’abatware bagiraga abagore benshi. Gutunga abagore byari icyubahiro kandi byagwizaga umuryango vuba mu gihe byari bikenewe kuko abana benshi n’imiryango byari ubwishingizi iyo iminsi yabaga mibi. Ariko gushaka abagore benshi ntibyemerwaga n’umuco nyarwanda gusa, ahubwo n’indi mico n’amadini birabishyigikiye twavuga nka Islam, Bibiliya, Mormons n’abandi.

    Ariko gutunga abagore benshi ntibyoroshye kandi byagiye bigaragara ko hashobora kuvukamo ibibazo kuko amabanga y’umugabo n’umugore arushaho kubahwa no kugira agaciro iyo akorerwa hagati y’umugore umwe n’umugabo umwe gusa. Ikindi gushakana ni ikibazo cy’Urukundo. Iyo rero utangiye kugabanya urukundo mu bagore no mu bagabo benshi abo ukunda bakeka ko utabakunda urukundo rwuzuye kuko hari abandi uba wabanje kuvuniraho!

    Bimwe mu bimenyetso bigaragaza ko gutunga abagore benshi byinjiye cyane mu muco nyarwanda bibonekera mu buvanganzo nyarwanda nk’imigani y’imigenurano n’ibindi. Urugero baravuga ngo “Impfizi ntiyimirwa” cyangwa ngo “umugore umwe ni nka nyoko”

    Kimwe mu bigaragaza ko gushaka abagore benshi bidatandukana n’ibibazo n’amatiku uzabisanga mu mvugo n’ibiganiro abantu bajya bagirana.Hari inkuru zivuga ukuntu umugabo ufite abagore benshi agerageza kubeshya abagore be bose abumvisha ko abakunda ku buryo bungana. Ngo iyo umugabo yaguze inyama afata nyirankundwakaza akamuha inyama nyinshi agira ati “nari naguze inyama nke ariko nakoze uko nshoboye ngo nguhe umugabane munini” ubwo agahaguruka no mu rundi rugo ati”nari naguze inyama nke ariko nakoze uko nshoboye ngo nguhe umugabane munini kuko ngukunda.” Nk’umuntu byanze bikunze iyo umuntu afite abagore benshi agira abo ukunda cyane n’abo akunda gahoro ibyo rero bigatuma imibanire ye n’abagore ihoramo induru.

    Zimwe mu ngaruka mbi zo gushaka abagore benshi ni
    -ukutizerwa n’uwo ari we wese muri abo bagore
    -abagore babaho bahanganye
    -hari igihe bica umugabo
    -amahane n’urwango mu bana bakomoka ku bagore batandukanye

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